force and momentum are not the same thing?
if m increases then force should increase (ma)
if m increases, wouldnt v decreases, keeping it constant?
First, you have to understand why a gas molecule have a speed in the first place. The gas molecule have a speed because they have a kinetic energy. For a gas molecule, its kinetic energy is proportional to temperature, which is KE=0.5mv^2=3RT/2
At a constant temperature, KE is constant for gas molecules of any molecular mass(kinetic theory; ideal behavior).
From this equation, 0.5mv^2=3RT/2 we can find speed v=sqroot(3RT/m).
v=sqroot(3RT/m) tells us that as molecular mass increases, speed decreases at a constant temperature.
Now we have to find momentum. mv=m[sqroot(3RT/m)]=sqroot(m)sqroot(3RT)
From here, we can tell as mass increase, momentum increases.
Summary:
At a constant temp, as mass increases, speed decreases, but the momentum increases. The reason for it is that the decrease in speed and increase in mass is not by a same factor. In other words, the increase in mass has larger effect on momentum while the decrease in speed has a smaller effect; therefore, an overall increase in momentum. when we calculate speed, we have to take a sqroot. See the difference.
Everything is in the derivation already. You have to understand why it is derived in such way and give it a reasonable verbal interpretation. Otherwise, you will not notice the fact that increase in mass would not lead to a
same degree decrease in speed.