Lying about your profession on a date?

[CaptainSSO]

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between the "urinary track" and "your all still med students" this is only slightly trollish.

You don't have a urinary track dude? I always bet on the gonnorhhea winning but somehow syphilis is a slow roller and takes the race every time.

 

[CaptainSSO]

Fark that...I'm banging 4 different women -- I pull a Christian Troy and once they hear I can do botox and fillers, they drop their panties in a wad.... God...life is good. Just had dinner w/ a hottie 9 years younger (I'm 35), and we made out on my couch for 40 minutes. Only the second date, and I'll probably bang her the next date.

Gotta admit..dermatology isn't "sexy" per se, but it gives me plenty of time to get some ass....

Oh, Jesus Christ. You're "that guy." Your compensation is evident from miles away. I could probably tell you your own life story, and considering you're excited enough about making out with a girl that you posted it on SDN (something a high school kid would do) I can guess you were a virgin until well into your 20's.

 

[pupster]

I don't tell people what I do unless they work with physicians or have physician friends. I've learned that otherwise I get reactions that simply make me uncomfortable or comments that make me mad. Sometimes I say I'm a surgical tech or am just evasive "I work in the OR at the hospital" and test the waters. Obviously, at some point you need to fess up if you are going to continue dating the person.

Then again, I'm female. Most men find what I do intimidating.

Eh...methinks you doth look at the wrong men. The smart, successful men will WANT a woman like you. Say...you're not in California, are you? ;-)

 

[pupster]

Oh, Jesus Christ. You're "that guy." Your compensation is evident from miles away. I could probably tell you your own life story, and considering you're excited enough about making out with a girl that you posted it on SDN (something a high school kid would do) I can guess you were a virgin until well into your 20's.

Eh? Yeah...was a virgin well into my early 20s...lol. So? Making up for it now lol. Just was trying to tell him to man up and stop apologizing for himself. I'm just horned up beyond belief right now. Meeting up w/ a ortho surgery resident tomorrow for lunch on her only day off this week and figuring out a way to get her to come over to look at some skin surgery books w/ me...hehehe.

 

[pupster]

Hahahahaha

To OP: there's no need to ever lie on a date. I'm surprised you're in your thirties and asking this question.

Aye...seriously...no need to lie on a date. Besides, most people know that doctors don't make the $$$ like investment bankers or venture capitalists....

 

[kautionwirez]

Join a PUA community or read Magic Bullets. Start off with your a janitor and if you can interest her believing that your a janitor, things only get better when you tell her your really a doctor.

 

[CaptainSSO]

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[Valadi]

Join a PUA community or read Magic Bullets. Start off with your a janitor and if you can interest her believing that your a janitor, things only get better when you tell her your really a doctor.

Premeds came on in the middle of a Saturday night to teach 'The Game.' This thread is now dead.

Outb4mysterymethodargument

 

[C5toC9]

most urologists/residents i know in my hospital are pimps

 

[alysp13751]

I would be put off if my date did not know what an urologist is......I mean, you do not need to be a doctor to know for god sakes, I knew it when I was 8

 

[Butler]

No. All attending are highly dysfunctional, psychopathic people. I thought this was already established.🙄



Oh god. That would just excite her more.. I need a calm person. Ha-ha. You will probably run into one of these people as you progress through your training. It won't bug you at first, in fact you'll see it as being part of your job. However, it wears down after some time.

It depends on the type of person you are in the end. Some want to constantly "enlighten" people on their job description, others want to get spend time doing other things like wine tasting while listening to Tony Bennett.

I fail to see your problem. She can't interrupt you with something obstructing her airway. Problem solved. Also, if you actually want a serious relationship; you're wasting your time with bimbos only interested in your job (we know why, they hear doctor or surgeon and think $$$$$).

Good luck mate.

 

[mmmcdowe]

Do people actually use the mystery method and all that stuff?

 

[2012mdc]

This thread is funny. I think the OP is a troll though

 

[Freakfarm0]

Do people actually use the mystery method and all that stuff?

Does a bear **** in the woods?

Socially inept, closet-toolbags are never going away. They use that pick up artist bull**** to feign social skills, and spread their disease around to other socially inept guys with every success they have with women.

I feel sorry for them.

 

[ushush]

lol is this true?

I will be different from most doctors. I will offer an attractive woman from my former country a deal. She lives in my mcmansion and I get some liberties with her body. But I first need to buy a mcmansion.

 

[Shnurek]

Does a bear **** in the woods?

Socially inept, closet-toolbags are never going away. They use that pick up artist bull**** to feign social skills, and spread their disease around to other socially inept guys with every success they have with women.

I feel sorry for them.

I don't think it works. People can see when you try too hard or act desperate or re-analyze everything you say from a mile away. I see these tools all the time and it makes me want to throw up. Its best to be natural and try different things which mostly lead to rejection until you get the hang of it and you become a playa.

 

[kitsunepixie]

I personally don't believe in being deceitful about your profession since I would be hugely turned off by that myself. There's a definite fear when you're a woman about intimidating guys by being honest about what you do, but my fiancee is quite supportive of what I do and I never tried to mislead him.

Some of my attendings and chief residents tell stories about when they were in the dating circuit...rather than tell women, "I'm a neurosurgeon," one attending (back in the late 70s) would tell them that he was a garbage collector. (And he looks the part, so I'm sure they would never doubt him! I also don't know if it helped him at all in meeting women, but it sure is funny as hell to imagine.) More recently, two of my chiefs would say that they were starving artists or in a band together (actually not a lie either), and to be honest they could have said that they were also garbage collectors and it wouldn't hurt them in the least because they're both quite attractive. They're married to other doctors now.

 

[ronaldo23]

I don't think it works. People can see when you try too hard or act desperate or re-analyze everything you say from a mile away. I see these tools all the time and it makes me want to throw up. Its best to be natural and try different things which mostly lead to rejection until you get the hang of it and you become a playa.

It works, but requires dedication and hard work. The mystery method isn't about just memorizing pick up lines, but about incorporating a series of the techniques that are tried and tested to picking up beautiful women. It approaches pickup in a systematic, organized way. While it is common sense to those who have "natural game", the mystery method can be very beneficial to the nerdier types that never really developed or learned these skills growing up.

Meet "Cajun", an example of a 3/10 killing it with 10/10s. Keep in mind nothing he is doing is part of his natural game, he is a CLASSIC example of a pick up artist who has mastered the Mystery Method. Second video is where he really takes off

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PamWnKC5ueY&feature=related[/YOUTUBE]

 

[2012mdc]

I don't think it works. People can see when you try too hard or act desperate or re-analyze everything you say from a mile away. I see these tools all the time and it makes me want to throw up. Its best to be natural and try different things which mostly lead to rejection until you get the hang of it and you become a playa.

Being natural is the way to go. If a women doesn't like the real me then I don't want to waste my time dating her anyway.

I guess some of these methods are good for people who are socially awkward and just want to score though. Lots of dumb chicks out there that would fall for some of this stuff

 

[upright]

Being natural is the way to go. If a women doesn't like the real me then I don't want to waste my time dating her anyway.

I guess some of these methods are good for people who are socially awkward and just want to score though. Lots of dumb chicks out there that would fall for some of this stuff

The point of these methods is to give you a framework to utilize when practicing going up to girls. They are not the final goal. With the structured routines you get the practice of talking to people, and in time, you iron out the wrinkles. After much effort, you one day can ditch the routines and become "natural" because you're now more comfortable in your own skin and interacting with the opposite sex.

 

[JP2740]

The point of these methods is to give you a framework to utilize when practicing going up to girls. They are not the final goal. With the structured routines you get the practice of talking to people, and in time, you iron out the wrinkles. After much effort, you one day can ditch the routines and become "natural" because you're now more comfortable in your own skin and interacting with the opposite sex.

lol I don't have time to add "pick-up practice" to my med school schedule, although I never really had a big problem with it. I just think it's funny what you guys are saying like any of us got time to go out every weekend and practice this **** to make robotic sound natural.

 

[Slowpoke]

Why jump straight to "I'm a urologist"?

Keep it vague, have an air of mystery about you. Let the women fish out what it is that you do. Think of yourself as a riddle that they have to solve. Try this next time..

"What do you do?"
"I help people. So what do you think of this part of the city?"
....blah blah 15 minutes later and she's curious....
"So how do you help people?"
"With my hands...sometimes I use my brain and sometimes a shiny metal object...so tell me more about your hometown"
....blah blah 15 minutes later and she's more curious....
"What exactly do you do for people with your hands?"
"Well, I listen to them, the problem they're having, and provide reassurance that things will be ok and sometimes that requires the use of my hands and that shiny metal object I mentioned earlier."
...blah blah 15 minutes later and now she's getting horny...
"No really, you're being really vague now. Can you at least tell me where you work?"
"It's a place where some go to die, some go to live. It's a place where others receive hope, yet some don't. It's a place filled with paradoxes. Tell me about your last out-of-country trip you took."
.
.
.
and so on...

At some point, you will have to cave, of course. But by then, you will have built up her expectations of what you do and you will not disappoint seeing how being a doctor still makes people go, "Ooohh...that's interesting..."

 

[altered states]

I am going to bookmark this thread and look at it when I need a real pick-me-up.

+1 🤣

 

[pupster]

Being natural is the way to go. If a women doesn't like the real me then I don't want to waste my time dating her anyway.

I guess some of these methods are good for people who are socially awkward and just want to score though. Lots of dumb chicks out there that would fall for some of this stuff

Gotta admit that I used to be heavily deep into the PUA community (even before "The Book") and I now am I guess what people would consider a "natural." Point of PUA is to get to the point where you don't really need routines (at least for me). Hey...I was a virgin until my early 20s and decided to do something about it. Now, it's like I'm a child in the candy shop...lol!

 

[Valadi]

Premeds came on in the middle of a Saturday night to teach 'The Game.' This thread is now dead.

Outb4mysterymethodargument

Do people actually use the mystery method and all that stuff?

Does a bear **** in the woods?

Socially inept, closet-toolbags are never going away. They use that pick up artist bull**** to feign social skills, and spread their disease around to other socially inept guys with every success they have with women.

I feel sorry for them.

Gotta admit that I used to be heavily deep into the PUA community (even before "The Book") and I now am I guess what people would consider a "natural." Point of PUA is to get to the point where you don't really need routines (at least for me). Hey...I was a virgin until my early 20s and decided to do something about it. Now, it's like I'm a child in the candy shop...lol!

Called it.