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Hi everyone,
I'm an MS3 at a top 30 allopathic school. I want to be a psychiatrist but my specialty advisor said something recently that hurt my feelings. I was involved in a process at my school called "feedforward." Essentially, students who are struggling in rotations are given special attention from the subsequent block director to check in with attendings to see if the issue has resolved. Long story short, I've had some interpersonal and mental health problems this year, specifically anxiety that impacted my ability to perform as a student. I'm being treated for it now, but on my psych rotation, my block director was informed that "I tend to get flustered when anxious and that my interviews with patients go downhill subsequently." He later said to me in a private Zoom session “Psychiatry may not be a good fit for you if you’re not good at reading social cues and if anxiety gets in the way. Perhaps you shouldn’t even do clinical medicine and pursue pathology instead.” I sent an email back saying he hurt my feelings and wishing he would support me going forward. In response, I got this message....
Thanks for your email and I am sorry that my statement was challenging to hear and hurtful. I am supportive of you and your choice and will do all that I can to help you in the process of preparing for residency and through the process of applying. I do still think that reading social cues is an important aspect of psychiatric practice - however, I haven't had the sense in our interactions that this has been problematic and as we discussed anxiety or problems of attention can also lead to the perception of problems "reading the room." In any event, I am glad you are doing well and taking steps to care for yourself. While I want to be direct and honest when advising students, I never want to be hurtful, and I apologize given what I said has clearly weighed on you over these past couple of months.
My question to you all:
Do you think this guy is trying to be mean to me or is it legitimately just being frank? Sometimes, I sense in conversations that he may be biased towards me b/c I'm a struggling student. I feel I'm not on an equal playing field with other candidates as a result of this feedforward process. I'm worried b/c his opinion of students at this school holds weight at the residency program and I'm actually really interested in my home program. I feel like I kinda forced him to say he supports me but he did not go forward HIMSELF to say he does that and I subsequently am not sure if he truly supports me or not. What are your thoughts?
I'm an MS3 at a top 30 allopathic school. I want to be a psychiatrist but my specialty advisor said something recently that hurt my feelings. I was involved in a process at my school called "feedforward." Essentially, students who are struggling in rotations are given special attention from the subsequent block director to check in with attendings to see if the issue has resolved. Long story short, I've had some interpersonal and mental health problems this year, specifically anxiety that impacted my ability to perform as a student. I'm being treated for it now, but on my psych rotation, my block director was informed that "I tend to get flustered when anxious and that my interviews with patients go downhill subsequently." He later said to me in a private Zoom session “Psychiatry may not be a good fit for you if you’re not good at reading social cues and if anxiety gets in the way. Perhaps you shouldn’t even do clinical medicine and pursue pathology instead.” I sent an email back saying he hurt my feelings and wishing he would support me going forward. In response, I got this message....
Thanks for your email and I am sorry that my statement was challenging to hear and hurtful. I am supportive of you and your choice and will do all that I can to help you in the process of preparing for residency and through the process of applying. I do still think that reading social cues is an important aspect of psychiatric practice - however, I haven't had the sense in our interactions that this has been problematic and as we discussed anxiety or problems of attention can also lead to the perception of problems "reading the room." In any event, I am glad you are doing well and taking steps to care for yourself. While I want to be direct and honest when advising students, I never want to be hurtful, and I apologize given what I said has clearly weighed on you over these past couple of months.
My question to you all:
Do you think this guy is trying to be mean to me or is it legitimately just being frank? Sometimes, I sense in conversations that he may be biased towards me b/c I'm a struggling student. I feel I'm not on an equal playing field with other candidates as a result of this feedforward process. I'm worried b/c his opinion of students at this school holds weight at the residency program and I'm actually really interested in my home program. I feel like I kinda forced him to say he supports me but he did not go forward HIMSELF to say he does that and I subsequently am not sure if he truly supports me or not. What are your thoughts?