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Hi. I am 26 years old and I graduated with a BA in Political Science with a GPA of 3.33 in 2003. I have been going to school full time and working part time as a oncology tech for the past year and half trying to finish the prereqs for nursing. I've finished the prereqs for nursing and was acccepted into a top nursing program. But heres the thing, I don't want to be a nurse. I've always wanted to be a doctor but because of my low GPA and lack of science classes I hesitated in pursuing my dream. I thought that I'd go for the next best thing. Now that I'm getting closer and closer to entering the nursing program I find myself getting depressed. I don't want to be a nurse, but I don't want forego nursing school to take the science classes for medical school only to be rejected. Should I stick with nursing, graduate and go to school part-time to finish the prereqs for medicine. Or should I switch majors and go into something like clinical laboratory science. That way I can finish the prereqs for medical school while at the same time ensuring I'll have a job after graduation if things don't work out. Please reply. Thanks.
 
hi littlegirlblue,

First off, don't despair. Secondly, assess what will make you happy in 5 years (along with changes in your life), and way into the future. It sounds like nursing is not it for you, since you are already dreading it, but before you write it off -- you should talk to some NP about their careers and lifestyle. It's not just diaper changing and definitely has a lot of flexibility and potential for growth.

As for doctor school, I don't know how many medschool prereqs you've taken, but I would caution that if you are more than 2 years away from applying that you should also seiously take your life circumstances (getting married, having children, finances) into consideration. A physician's career may seem very rosy, but it takes a lot of sacrifices to make it through.
I don't mean to deter you, but I just want to stress those considerations. A good friend of mine who was your age when she applied ended up not going to med school, after all the trouble of post-bacc, MCATs, etc. In my case, I didn't change careers and get into med school until I'm almost 30. Now I not only have to study all the time, but also worry about finding a significant other, saving money, worrying about my aging parents, missing my nephews and nieces, and friends, and everything else.

A lot of things to consider -- definitely give yourself time to think about all your options (pros and cons). Good luck! 🙂
 
If you don't want to be a nurse, for heaven's sakes don't waste your money or time preparing for a job you're going to hate. There are LOTS of folks (me included) who overcame poor early performance and lack of science classes. For some, post-bacc was a great solution. For me, I grew up and started over (18 years later!).

As for "only to be rejected"... you're already being rejected. By yourself. I think the best way to think of this one is "make THEM say no". If you don't try, you're saying no to yourself.

I think tho, the biggest question here is "what do you really want to do"? It sounds like you don't want to do nursing. So throw that one out. I think you need to look at your options from here.. how much school do you need to prepare for med school? How long would that take? Are you eligible for fin.aid? Can your budget take being in school for longer? Are you willing to "suck it up" (so to speak) to do school fulltime? Or are you more of a part-time school kind of person?

As for having a job after graduation... there are jobs out there. And I think a premed curriculum would prepare you well for any clinical lab job. (anyone have any experience here? Q?)
 
I've finished the prereqs for nursing and was acccepted into a top nursing program. But heres the thing, I don't want to be a nurse. I've always wanted to be a doctor but because of my low GPA and lack of science classes I hesitated in pursuing my dream. I thought that I'd go for the next best thing. I don't want to be a nurse, but I don't want forego nursing school to take the science classes for medical school only to be rejected.

If I were you, I wouldn't settle for second best. My goodness, you haven't even tried applying to medical school yet. Don't give up on yourself before you even start!

Please do not make a decision to go to nursing school just because you fear rejection. If you value your happiness and yourself, you will go for your dream. It is much better, in my opinion, to fall flat on your face while trying to go for what really matters to you, rather than to have never tried at all. Believe me, you'll sleep better at night knowing you are at least an inch closer to what you truly want, than if you were to betray your heart.

If you really go for it, and you are willing to give it your absolute all, I believe that the Universe will step in to help you out. You'll find more power and strength when you travel with your heart than you could have ever imagined.

Should I stick with nursing, graduate and go to school part-time to finish the prereqs for medicine. Or should I switch majors and go into something like clinical laboratory science. That way I can finish the prereqs for medical school while at the same time ensuring I'll have a job after graduation if things don't work out. Please reply. Thanks.

It's clear you want to apply to medical school, so you will want to finish up your premedical requirements with good grades and without unnecessary delay. I don't know what your academic options are, and I don't know too much about nursing. Perhaps you should talk to an advisor about this. I don't see why you couldn't take premedical requirements at the same time you are attending nursing school; it just might take you a little longer to get them done, that's all. On the other hand, if you aren't interested in attending nursing school at all, you can easily continue your work as a medical technician, or similar field, while taking premedical requirements in a formal or informal post-baccalaureate program (this can help pay for your classes, too). Another option would be to attend graduate school, or get another degree. I don't know. Feel it out and create an option that gets you ready to apply to medical school, brings you joy, and has good practicality. I'm sure you can imagine what is most optimal for you. The options are numerous. Just don't be so quick to jump to the conclusion that you are going to fail, and don't get ready to fail so quickly, either. Focus on getting into medical school.

In any case, do well in all of your classes, and do what you need to do to perform well on the MCAT. Apply when you are fully ready. Try applying to both allopathic and osteopathic schools. If it doesn't work out, don't give up. Keep recommitting until you don't want to try anymore. Then, if you still haven't gotten into a medical school, consider other healthcare professions, or off-shore options. If you are really committed, I think that you'll get in eventually. With any luck you'll get in on your first try, and you won't even have to think of back up plans.

Good luck!
 
Hi. I just want to say thanks for all of the responses to my post. I was thinking that I could finish my degree in nursing instead of going to graduate school to let schools know that my first undergrad GPA was the result of a lack of maturity on my part. However there is not one science class in nursing that is considered a premed science course. (I've taken all of them and despite the rotest from my fellow classmates, they are pretty easy) If anything theses classes could serve as a "pre" premed science classes. (I would at least know what to expect when I take General Chem and General Biology) I was thinking of either working as a nurse part time and going full time to finish my premed prereqs or taking out a loan to do so. The problem is the thought of spending two years out of my life to finish up a degree that I don't want is depressing. To tell you the truth "I'm just not that into nursing".
 
Then don't become a nurse! If you're not into don't do it. Nursing is a noble profession that takes dedication and compassion. Don't do it. Switch majors and follow your heart. Become a lab tech because we don't need nurses that hate their jobs! There's way too much patient contact for that. If you haven't even started class and are already hating it then why, oh why would you want to put yourself and your fellow students and future co-workers in misery? There's other jobs out there for your pre-medical self. Set some goals and achieve them. Have a plan B, as well as an idea of whether you are or are not williing to re-apply. (My plan B is to reapply, and if that doesn't work then become a physician's assistant.) The road to medicine is paved with challenges. You're going to need to shift your attitude to more positive if you'd like to see a light at the end of the tunnel in this long road. Otherwise you'll end up thinking that the light at the end of the tunnel is really a train. Best of luck to you.
 
Hi. I am 26 years old and I graduated with a BA in Political Science with a GPA of 3.33 in 2003. I have been going to school full time and working part time as a oncology tech for the past year and half trying to finish the prereqs for nursing. I've finished the prereqs for nursing and was acccepted into a top nursing program. But heres the thing, I don't want to be a nurse. I've always wanted to be a doctor but because of my low GPA and lack of science classes I hesitated in pursuing my dream. I thought that I'd go for the next best thing. Now that I'm getting closer and closer to entering the nursing program I find myself getting depressed. I don't want to be a nurse, but I don't want forego nursing school to take the science classes for medical school only to be rejected. Should I stick with nursing, graduate and go to school part-time to finish the prereqs for medicine. Or should I switch majors and go into something like clinical laboratory science. That way I can finish the prereqs for medical school while at the same time ensuring I'll have a job after graduation if things don't work out. Please reply. Thanks.
If you like the research, then go for the lab tech degree. It'll probably be fun for a few years, but if you've got any drive, it'll force you to go for the PhD sooner or later.

If you like nursing, and you know you'll never think about being a doc again, then become a nurse (***this is a trick statement!***).

I'll advocate a strategy, and I'll tell you that I did not do this myself, and I probably hurt for it - put everything you have into one plan. It is risky, but at this point you need to devote yourself to this goal. You can't be half in/half out. (Though one of my classmates worked as a CNA while finishing up his applications to med school to get $$$. Something to consider.)
 
...And I think a premed curriculum would prepare you well for any clinical lab job. (anyone have any experience here? Q?)
Anything that gets you a "B.S." after your name will land you a lab job, and that's not even a hard and fast rule...
 
I'm going to finish with my nursing degree and take some of my premed science classes while I'm in school. I've decided to finish my degree in nursing to boast my overall GPA. Thanks for all of the advice
 
Do a post-bac program to finish your pre-med requirements. You will need to explain why you did the nursing program and if it is not something you wanted to do, it might set some interviewers minds a wandering.
 
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