byGOD
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I am 20 years old. Since about sophomore year of high school I have wrestled with the idea of becoming a doctor, particularly psychiatry, though I love all of medicine. However, the price of medical school, along with the idea of delaying children, and not seeing friends and family turned me off. I chose to become a computer science major, having never actually taken a CS course, and thinking, because I was good at Calc I and II in high school, I would bode well.
I was wrong. I ended my first semester with a 1.8 GPA on academic probation. I broke down to my mother, who turned me away and criticized me (as immigrant parents do) for not having it all figured out at 18.
I ended up switching my major to nursing, figuring I would just become a mid level provider. I kept on the nursing track, jumping from my 1.8 to making the Dean’s List with a 3.9. Woohoo, but now what? Almost everyday from that day onward, I woke up thinking about becoming a physician. I suppressed that thought though, and just tried to focus on nursing school.
I can no longer push back my desire to become a physician. I’ve got about four semesters left, not including two summer sessions I’ll have available to me (totaling four summer semesters). I came into my college with about 30+ credit hours from AP courses I took in high school, some of which should cover some prerequisites.
Moving past my sob story, here is my scenario so far:
Quality input would be appreciated. Thank you.
I was wrong. I ended my first semester with a 1.8 GPA on academic probation. I broke down to my mother, who turned me away and criticized me (as immigrant parents do) for not having it all figured out at 18.
I ended up switching my major to nursing, figuring I would just become a mid level provider. I kept on the nursing track, jumping from my 1.8 to making the Dean’s List with a 3.9. Woohoo, but now what? Almost everyday from that day onward, I woke up thinking about becoming a physician. I suppressed that thought though, and just tried to focus on nursing school.
I can no longer push back my desire to become a physician. I’ve got about four semesters left, not including two summer sessions I’ll have available to me (totaling four summer semesters). I came into my college with about 30+ credit hours from AP courses I took in high school, some of which should cover some prerequisites.
Moving past my sob story, here is my scenario so far:
- I need to take Physics I & II, Chem I & II (as my school has a separate chemistry course for nursing), Organic Chem I & II, and perhaps BIOL I & II with a lab unless some med schools do take AP credits
- My current GPA is a 3.0 flat. This is primarily due to my nursing school being graded as such:
- <77.5% = F
- 78-84% = C
- 85-92% = B
- 93%+ = A
- There are no +’s or -‘s, only flat grades.
- I am getting plenty of clinical hours from my nursing clinicals. I have had my instructor state that she has never seen a student get patients to open up and discuss sensitive parts of their lives as much as I have. I am hoping I could use her, as well as one of my anatomy professors (who recommended I become an SI for anatomy) as future LORs
- If those clinical hours above are not good enough, I have several CNA jobs lined up, particularly neuro & cardiovascular. I can balance these jobs with school, as I already work 24-34 hours a week at a grocery store. I can definitely cut my hours and work as a CNA.
- Sort of off topic, but it bothers me that a good chunk of people in my life think they’re “above” washing and taking care of patients. Ironic considering their beliefs show the Creator becoming a man and literally washing the feet of His creation, but to each their own.
- I also have options to shadow plenty of doctors in my area, ranging from pediatricians & neurologists to ENTs.
- I am a member of healthcare careers club at my school, and have hundreds of hours volunteering at my church’s bingo. I also want to create a “Men in Nursing” club to help assist my fellow men in the field of nursing (this is just a thought)
- I also created a company licensed in the state of Indiana. I am bringing this up, because it was medical device company that I started with an engineering friend. I was the one that filed a provisional patent on the device, organized presentations to other entrepreneurs via 1 million cups (check them out, pretty cool), and brought together teams of engineers to help design the product (I’m not knowledgeable in any aspect of engineering).
- The device was a grip device that I hoped could help patients going through rehab, as well as athletes trying to strengthen their grip. Despite me contacting multiple universities though (as my college had someone damage all their 3D printers and doesn’t have an EMG), I received no response. The idea has since been sitting idly.
- I’m also attempting to write a research paper just estimating anesthesia provider coverage (CRNAs & anesthesiologists) in the small region I live in. I hope I can get it published in a student journal.
- Other things I do for hobbies include running, weightlifting, and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, though I have taken a short hiatus due to finances.
Quality input would be appreciated. Thank you.