Hi everyone,
I am sure the whole kids thing has been brought up here on SDN many a times, but I need some solid advice from you older non trads trying to enter medical school. I am 26 years old (female, obviously) and I started a post bacc program this fall. I have been advised to slow myself down a bit with my school work because I may be rushing things.
I wanted to finish taking my science pre reqs no later than this summer, and was planning on taking the August MCAT. So, this whole time, my plan was to take all of my science classes, take Orgo I and Orgo II summer session I and summer session and take the August MCAT. Then realized that I would not have time to study for the MCAT while taking Organic Chemistry with lab for 8 hours a day in the summer. So, then i opted for taking the August MCAT without Orgo II and taking Orgo II in the fall of 2005. Now, it turns out that my physics II class conflicts with Bio II and cannot take both next semester, unless I take physics II with calculus, and I am still contemplating this considering I have not taken calculus in like 8 years and I am not too great in math. So, now my plans are a bit screwy.
I am getting married in March and my fiancee is really worried about having children later in life, he doesnt want to have them when he is 40, he is 2 years older than I am. I figured that the latest I could apply to medical school is 2007 and hope that I get in and by the time I finish with med school (4 years) I will be 33. So I enter medical school at 29 and 4 years of medical school, I am 33, then have a small two year window to have children. Along with a residency, which I have heard they dont like you being pregnant the first year of residency, then we would try to get pregnant the second year. That leaves me with one problem, I want to have more than one child.
I know this may seem all so complicated in writing, but if there is anyone out there, male or female, I want to know how you handled it. Thanks.