vicinihil,
long time no talk 😛
having just come off of third-year clerkships (and having friends at both uva and nyu), I can confidently say the following:
pre-clinical education:
uva>nyu (uva's faculty is stronger and it's shorter by half a year)
pre-clinical opportunities:
toss-up--uva>nyu (research opps), but nyu>uva (global health/public service/community service opps)
clinical education:
nyu>>uva (bellvue, tisch and the VA see some of the highest patient volumes in the country with a ridiculous diversity of pathology. uva kids get farmed out all over the state because the University hospital just doesn't see the kind of volume to accomodate 140 medical students/year...so basically, if you enjoy Salem, VA, then stay in virginia 😉 )
residency reputation:
toss-up, depending on where you want to match. the UVA name is respected everywhere and this past year's match list was sick...NYU, however, also has great placement, particularly if you're looking to stay on the East Coast (NYC, Boston, Philly, DC, Baltimore, NC, Pitt, etc.).
Intangibles:
This is where it gets tricky. UVa's med school definitely has a very typical college feel where life is centered around house parties, random med school events and life in the 'ville (the corner, wine country, local art stuff - c'ville is fairly cosmopolitan given its size, to be fair). As I've heard from some of my friends, however, UVa's a great place to study medicine...because there's not much else to do (and this is coming from kids who did undergrad in Richmond!). NYU is obviously a different experience, but it's not be as typically collegiate in experience as UVa would be. I have a feeling you went to an urban school for undergrad ;-) so the UVa feel might be nice; NYU, on the other hand, is the quintessential Urban experience in one of the world's greatest cities - but there's no grassy knolls and expanses of lawn on which to study. Both are good in their own right - it's just a matter of deciding what you value more.
Either way, good luck with your choice - it's fantastic to have those two options. If it were me - I would go to NYU (personal reasons...I like cities), but UVa's a tough place to turn down. PM me if you need anything.