Isn't this a case of psychiatrist becoming neurotic about something they shouldn't be? Lawsuits against psychiatrist are very low, and I cannot imagining getting sued because patient stopped showing up. That's insane.
No.
If you terminate a patient, or a patient decides to fire you, (or leave or whatever) unless it was something such as moving to a different area, that is already in a zone where this specific demographic the pool of patients have an increased likelihood of some type of cluster B drama.
I've had patients I haven't seen in years contact the office and demand a refill of meds, be problematic with my receptionist, and create some other type of "Karen" drama. You terminate the patient it's official. It's over. You can now remove this from your RAM.
While this type of patient is by no means a majority, I call it "Emotional Economics." If 5% of my patients were like it, and most people think 5% is very low, it's not low at all. That would mean of the on-average 75 patients I see a week, this is going to happen a few times a week. Going to work every day with a good likelihood of this happening at least once a day is draining, will hurt your ability to function, and unreasonably harm your office productivity not just in the sense of your income, but ethically in the sense that it harms your ability to see and heal patients in need of help.
How often do I have to terminate a patient because of something like the above? A few times a year. Earlier in my practice during it's formative stages it was a few times a week. What caused it to go down was when you start up you take everybody. Now, most of my patients I've had for years and the ones that fit the above demographic were pruned off.
The other counter argument is if they have a cluster-B be they're in need of help. Oh yeah sure I agree with you, but we're psychiatrists, meds don't help cluster B, we usually aren't trained in DBT therapy, and in DBT therapy one of the main modailities of care is to hold patients responsible for their actions. Often times people believe healthcare providers must always be "healing" as never tell anything distressing. We are in our place telling narcissists they have an ego-sensitivity problem. We are in our place in telling a borderline PD patient we cannot tolerate them missing multiple meetings, etc.
(IF you want to tell me how I'm such a terrible person because of the above paragraph, 1-you don't know DBT, my wife specializes in it, and holding a patient responsible for their own actions with repercussions is actually a part of that therapy. You are being therapeutic by giving the patient a repercussion. 2-IF you continue some type of treatment that you know is not appropriate such as trying to medicate a cluster B disorder with a med you are in the wrong for doing so. I've seen several psychiatrists unsuccessfully treat cluster B patients for years with no success, with the patient being misdiagnosed with Bipolar Disorder, and becoming obese of having some other problem because of the meds. Oh-but continue to tell me how it's "wrong" to not medicate a patient with a med that has no benefit on their disorder).
The last 2 patients I terminated were causing Karen-dramas. One missed 3 appointments, we called her several times, would not answer the phone and during one of our sessions was giggling during the meeting cause, "cause I'm on meth and I love it!," telling me she had intention of stopping. The other one's wife kept showing up to my office and yelling at my assistant, but after several bona-fide attempts to get her to stop, I had to tell the patient in an ultimatum that I will either get a restraining order on her, or he has to step up and get her to stop. I asked him to set up a meeting between him, her and I so we could hash it out in a well-intentioned attempt to save the treatment relationship before I terminated and he didn't do anything. (I wrote about this in another thread). He wouldn't do anything so I terminated him as a patient and she stopped showing up.
Now trying to be accommodating, there are patients who you may confuse for a problematic patient, but after careful consideration you realize there may be some extenuating circumstance. Also some selfish doctors will terminate patients simply because they are difficult, but within a realm where that patient just can't help it such as financial circumstances, they do have a cluster B but they're working on it and it is showing signs of slow improvement. This is where this is a grey area. You shouldn't terminate a patient just cause it's easier on yourself. I imposed on myself a "3 strikes your out" rule, I require of myself that I address to a patient what the problem is and give them some room to try to fix it, document it all, and follow all of the recommendations with termination letters (1 month prescription of meds, 3 referrals, send out by certified mail).