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This is seriously coming down to the wire and everyone told me i would get a "special feeling" or i would "just know in your heart" but that's a lie and I can't decide.
If you made this decision or know someone who has please PM me (i'll give you my phone #) so we can talk about chosing between the two?
I am honestly torn. my family is located right in the middle of the two (NJ), I'm impressed with penn med and impressed with tri-i's research capabilities, i think it would be awesome to live in NYC, but i think it's more practical to live in philly. I like penn's ugrad campus nearby because they have a nice gym (big part of my life) and plenty of intramural stuff which cornell does not. On the other hand, I love the diversity at tri-i/nyc (latin scene...soccer in the park; plenty of latin/hip hop lounges and clubs; festivals; etc) I didn't see that diversity at Penn. At cornell i will be living in a shoebox and paying tons of money to go out and have a good time (i generally like to go to nice places) whereas in penn i would live in a nicely sized row house and going out would be a little cheaper (maybe). Would i get sick of the philly scene? Are there plenty of choices? My car would be non-existant in NYC but who cares about a car in the city.
I know in 10 years this decision will matter very little. the matches are great for both places (everyone gets first choices) and if i hear "you can't go wrong they're both great places" again I'm going to stab someone in the eye. How is it fair that I have to make a decision that will affect me 7 years from now?
i have a long term gf and she doesn't care where we go either. my mother and aunts are just happy i've made it to this decision, but that's not very helpful. I know i shouldn't be whinning (spelled wrong?) since many people would kill to be in my position, but I'm going to whine anyway since i think this post has the possibility of helping someone in the future.
i'm also pissed that i had to hand in my p.o.s. thesis tomorrow and i couldn't make it to the cornell revisit to meet all of the students, etc.
well that's that. some talk to me.
If you made this decision or know someone who has please PM me (i'll give you my phone #) so we can talk about chosing between the two?
I am honestly torn. my family is located right in the middle of the two (NJ), I'm impressed with penn med and impressed with tri-i's research capabilities, i think it would be awesome to live in NYC, but i think it's more practical to live in philly. I like penn's ugrad campus nearby because they have a nice gym (big part of my life) and plenty of intramural stuff which cornell does not. On the other hand, I love the diversity at tri-i/nyc (latin scene...soccer in the park; plenty of latin/hip hop lounges and clubs; festivals; etc) I didn't see that diversity at Penn. At cornell i will be living in a shoebox and paying tons of money to go out and have a good time (i generally like to go to nice places) whereas in penn i would live in a nicely sized row house and going out would be a little cheaper (maybe). Would i get sick of the philly scene? Are there plenty of choices? My car would be non-existant in NYC but who cares about a car in the city.
I know in 10 years this decision will matter very little. the matches are great for both places (everyone gets first choices) and if i hear "you can't go wrong they're both great places" again I'm going to stab someone in the eye. How is it fair that I have to make a decision that will affect me 7 years from now?
i have a long term gf and she doesn't care where we go either. my mother and aunts are just happy i've made it to this decision, but that's not very helpful. I know i shouldn't be whinning (spelled wrong?) since many people would kill to be in my position, but I'm going to whine anyway since i think this post has the possibility of helping someone in the future.
i'm also pissed that i had to hand in my p.o.s. thesis tomorrow and i couldn't make it to the cornell revisit to meet all of the students, etc.
well that's that. some talk to me.