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I asked one of my old professors at the beginning of January for a letter of rec (applying this cycle) and he agreed. He remembered me and was glad to do it. However, he hasn't responded to my emails at all. When I went to his office yesterday (after 2 weeks), he said that he gets a lot of emails and will get to mine eventually. The deadline for the application is coming up and I'm afraid he's not going to be able to do the letter of rec in time. What should I do?
 
Hey. I'm sorry to say, but while there's still a few schools that are interviewing, but you've already crossed out around half the possible schools (lots of schools have Dec deadlines; some even earlier). Plus, you have a huge disadvantage applying late, especially since 1) it's rolling admissions, 2) schools I know already have interviews booked until February, 3)I'm assuming your AADSAS packet isn't completed, which would take additional time. I would also say if you want to save your money; apply next cycle.

.... Huh. Out of curiosity, I went through your post history. It seems like you're pre-pharmacy; you even got into a pharmacy school.. and you started posting about finance or dental school.


... Wut??
 
Save your money. There's like a 1% chance you can still get in this cycle even with a 24 AA. I know the school I chose already filled their class and I'm sure most other schools are in the same boat.
I have everything in place and just need that letter of rec and to take my DAT this week. Even if I have a near impossible chance of getting in, I'd rather try now just to see if I could get in and apply again next year in June if it doesn't work out. I'm trading an application fee for the potential to save a year of schooling.
 
Hey. I'm sorry to say, but while there's still a few schools that are interviewing, but you've already crossed out around half the possible schools (lots of schools have Dec deadlines; some even earlier). Plus, you have a huge disadvantage applying late, especially since 1) it's rolling admissions, 2) schools I know already have interviews booked until February, 3)I'm assuming your AADSAS packet isn't completed, which would take additional time. I would also say if you want to save your money; apply next cycle.

.... Huh. Out of curiosity, I went through your post history. It seems like you're pre-pharmacy; you even got into a pharmacy school.. and you started posting about finance or dental school.


... Wut??
I did get into pharmacy school during my sophomore year, but decided not to go because I realized how saturated pharmacy is. There are so many pharmacy schools open, it's ridiculous.

I also did get into investment banking but after doing an internship in it, realized that I didn't want the life associated with it (i.e., the long hours and tremendous stress). In finance, you're as good as your last trade or your last deal. If you're not performing, you're out. Dentistry is a much more stable career and while I may not LOVE dentistry, I can tolerate it and that's good enough for me. I also think I'll be good at running a business so I'm not worried (and pretty excited actually) about opening my own practice.

To sum it up, I'd rather be making $200k working 40hrs/wk in my own dental practice than $600k working 80hrs/wk in finance.
 
I have everything in place and just need that letter of rec and to take my DAT this week. Even if I have a near impossible chance of getting in, I'd rather try now just to see if I could get in and apply again next year in June if it doesn't work out. I'm trading an application fee for the potential to save a year of schooling.
Just so you know, it really is nearly impossible for you to be accepted this cycle. The chances are so low that I would just save my money if I were in your situation.
 
I have everything in place and just need that letter of rec and to take my DAT this week. Even if I have a near impossible chance of getting in, I'd rather try now just to see if I could get in and apply again next year in June if it doesn't work out. I'm trading an application fee for the potential to save a year of schooling.

It seems you've already made up your mind then? It's your call, OP, but if you keep bugging your professor for the rec/email, you're not just trading an app fee for a year of schooling. You may potentially jeopardize your relationship with your professor in some way which may lead to a letter less than glorious, if you know what I mean.

You asked people on here for their opinion, and the majority (including me) is saying to wait a year.

Best of luck if you do choose to apply this cycle - who ever really knows! 🙂
 
I have everything in place and just need that letter of rec and to take my DAT this week. Even if I have a near impossible chance of getting in, I'd rather try now just to see if I could get in and apply again next year in June if it doesn't work out. I'm trading an application fee for the potential to save a year of schooling.
Man you're going to have no chance coming in unorganized and last minute like this. Just wait for next cycle that way you can focus on crushing the DAT instead of stressing to get the app and your letters in. Have you shadowed at all?
 
I also did get into investment banking but after doing an internship in it, realized that I didn't want the life associated with it (i.e., the long hours and tremendous stress). In finance, you're as good as your last trade or your last deal. If you're not performing, you're out. Dentistry is a much more stable career and while I may not LOVE dentistry, I can tolerate it and that's good enough for me. I also think I'll be good at running a business so I'm not worried (and pretty excited actually) about opening my own practice.
Like: "Honey I don't love you, but I do tolerate you and that's good enough for me so let's get married today."
 
Like: "Honey I don't love you, but I do tolerate you and that's good enough for me so let's get married today."
I'm not sure if this is accurate, but from shadowing my dentist and from speaking to other dentists, it seems like general dentists spend the majority of their day just doing the same 4 procedures. I reckon it'd get repetitive after a couple years.

I love business and finance, but if you want to make it in that field, you have to give your life. I know people in finance in their late 40's still pulling all nighters with the 23 year old first years when it's crunch time for a deal. That, compounded with extensive travel (if you choose not to work in NYC), really strains you relationships with family and friends. I like money like anyone else, but just not that much.
 
Like: "Honey I don't love you, but I do tolerate you and that's good enough for me so let's get married today."

I'm not sure if this is accurate, but from shadowing my dentist and from speaking to other dentists, it seems like general dentists spend the majority of their day just doing the same 4 procedures. I reckon it'd get repetitive after a couple years.

I love business and finance, but if you want to make it in that field, you have to give your life. I know people in finance in their late 40's still pulling all nighters with the 23 year old first years when it's crunch time for a deal. That, compounded with extensive travel (if you choose not to work in NYC), really strains you relationships with family and friends. I like money like anyone else, but just not that much.

Doc Toothache makes a great point, and something that's important for everyone to consider: When you're choosing dentistry, you're making what can amount to a life commitment.

You like finance, so let's talk money. To become a dentist, you can pay up to 500k in student loans. That's half a million dollars for 4 years of school. You said you're trading the cost of applying this year for the chance at going to a school -- but you're also trading the chance at going to your state school. Now, I'm not sure if you have a state school, or how easily it is to get in -- but cheaper options tend to stop interviews earlier, and almost all (if not all) schools are still interviewing are private schools.

Now, half a million dollars --even 250k-- in student loans can be crippling. Luckily, dentistry pays well, so you should be able to pay off those loans and live a decent lifestyle... but it also means you need to *keep doing dentistry*, at least until the loans are repaid (unless you can find another job where you start with $120k). You can't "divorce" dentistry -- you have to tolerate it until your loans are manageable, and remember: your loans might compound. (unless you go the military route -- then you are firmly required to do 4 years of *active* military dentistry. I know of someone in the military who switched careers after their loans were repaid. Oh, but you're kinda late for those applications as well...).

I'm happy to pay what I need to go into dentistry. I love the field, I love the procedures and working with my hands, and I sincerely enjoy interacting with others -- these are just a few of many reasons why I'm passionate about dentistry. I'm sure this is something I'll want to do for the rest of my life. Plus, the payscale is a bonus.

But you don't seem as passionate. Are you sure you can "tolerate" this for 15+ years? Why not you take some time, hold back on the applications (I agree with @lumos26 's post -- pestering a prof will just lead to bad recommendations), and shadow a bit more to be certain of your choice?
 
I'm not sure if this is accurate, but from shadowing my dentist and from speaking to other dentists, it seems like general dentists spend the majority of their day just doing the same 4 procedures. I reckon it'd get repetitive after a couple years.

I love business and finance, but if you want to make it in that field, you have to give your life. I know people in finance in their late 40's still pulling all nighters with the 23 year old first years when it's crunch time for a deal. That, compounded with extensive travel (if you choose not to work in NYC), really strains you relationships with family and friends. I like money like anyone else, but just not that much.

From your posts, I don't see your passion. You say you "may not love dentistry". Well, you better love people and serving them. Without that, your business will fail. I think you need to take some time off and think about what you truly want to do in life.
 
What's your deadline? I know some schools have deadlines late as Feburary or March, but if you haven't even taken your DAT yet then you're in bad shape. You take your DAT this week, but it can take up to 4 weeks for the score to be processed and show up on your AADSAS portal. At that point it still needs to be mailed out, and that can take another week or 2. And add at least a few days for the school to receive it and a few more days to process it.

I would save the money and apply in the summer. At this point you're going to be very late, and maybe not even meet the deadline.
 
At that point it still needs to be mailed out, and that can take another week or 2. And add at least a few days for the school to receive it and a few more days to process it.

I don't think the scores are manually mailed out to schools - IIRC they are updated to schools electronically and it takes about a week after AADSAS has processed the score, so overall he's looking at 4 weeks score processing + 1 week push through to schools = 5 weeks max from the point of taking the exam (it generally takes less time than this for most people, though).

With that said I still agree with your post overall. His application is going to be incredibly late before it's complete (mid to late February realistically). Even if he hasn't passed the official application deadline at some schools, those schools have still already filled most of their seats and he will be competing for a dramatically diminished number of spots. Due to rolling admissions, he's probably going to be one of the last applications looked at period, and it would need a near miracle for there to be a seat open even if he had an amazing application.

Long story short: save your money and prepare to apply in June. There's no hurry. Your chances of admission will be much higher, as opposed to almost non-existent now. Also, I sincerely hope you aren't rushing into the DAT less than fully prepared so you can pull this stunt off. Most schools have a DAT deadline that is separate from the application deadline so be sure you haven't passed that either.
 
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I did get into pharmacy school during my sophomore year, but decided not to go because I realized how saturated pharmacy is. There are so many pharmacy schools open, it's ridiculous.

I also did get into investment banking but after doing an internship in it, realized that I didn't want the life associated with it (i.e., the long hours and tremendous stress). In finance, you're as good as your last trade or your last deal. If you're not performing, you're out. Dentistry is a much more stable career and while I may not LOVE dentistry, I can tolerate it and that's good enough for me. I also think I'll be good at running a business so I'm not worried (and pretty excited actually) about opening my own practice.

To sum it up, I'd rather be making $200k working 40hrs/wk in my own dental practice than $600k working 80hrs/wk in finance.

We should save this post for posterity. For the hundreds of future threads arguing that there is no money in dentistry, that the lifestyle ain't what it used to be, and that banking, pharmacy, etc. are far better career options.


Doc Toothache makes a great point, and something that's important for everyone to consider: When you're choosing dentistry, you're making what can amount to a life commitment.

Fair points, but you also can't divorce working in general. Everyone has to pay the bills, and so for some dentistry may not be what they're passionate about (as is OP's case), but that doesn't mean it isn't their best option. It sounds like OP has tried several different avenues and decided that they're not for him/her. Furthermore, OP seems to have done his/her due-diligence and decided upon dentistry based upon a number of important lifestyle and career factors. I see nothing wrong with that, and to me it's no worse than choosing dentistry because it "makes you happy" or you "can't see yourself doing anything else".

At this stage, the most any of us on here can say is that we think that we love dentistry. None of us owns a practice, and none of us have taken home the stresses that come from managing a business. I think I will love it, and I'm sure most of the posters here do too, but we can't really know until it happens.

In reference to doc's marriage analogy, it's hard to know exactly what the commitment of marriage entails until you are married. No one gets married intending to get divorced. Likewise, no one goes to dental school with the idea that they will be miserable. I would argue that no one here can profess to love dentistry anymore than two people in a budding relationship can honestly claim to love each other after three or four dates. We don't know it that well, and what we think we know is only a tiny glimpse of the reality which awaits. Once we're through dental school and into the profession, I suppose then we can state our true feelings for the profession as we come to understand it more completely.
 
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If you actually have a 24 AA then you should have no issue getting in next year, especially if you apply early. Maybe you could spend next year working as an i-banker and seeing what you love more. Best of luck!
 
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