Hi,
I'm not a psych PhD student though I've taken college level psychology courses (cognitive and social mostly). My major is mathematics. I wanted to get a good answer to my question but in part I don't think my classmates know the answer and in part I'm embarrassed to ask my professor. So I found this wonderful forum and thought to ask here.
The thing is I'm hooked on Dr Phil. That's the embarrassing part. Because I am by principle against reality type shows. Now here's the question: Very often Dr Phil asks the people on his show, "How is that working for you?" I used to think that was brilliant. It seems so mechanical, so precise, not touchy feely at all. In other words, you're not asking the person to imagine to get in touch with their "inner child" but to look specifically at how some behavior is working or not working.
But then it occurred to me while watching his show a few days ago...the answer is never that clear! First off, working for WHO? And is it short term or long term? Also what about ethics? And what if something is working when it's about getting a particular thing you want but not something else equally important? And sometimes the person may not be after the right kind of thing in the first place (a drug addict's behavior to get drugs).
So some examples: Abuse DOES work, otherwise nobody would do it. Also if you're after a girl you like, certain very questionable behavior also work in the short term, and depending on the girl, also in the long term. Whether those behavior are ethical, that's a different question. Same thing in business. Or politics. My father is a rather famous politician in my city so I know this for a fact. So just because something works for some purpose does not mean it's "right" nor that it does not work does it mean it's "wrong."
So my question is: What is the source of all this functional talk? How do you guys use this idea of "what works" to help people? Is this common sense stuff (the way somebody might say, Hey you can't cram the night before an exam, or is there some kind of psychological research or philosophical mindset behind all these functional (if "functional" is even the right word) evaluations.
Thank you for humoring me. It may be that Dr Phil stuff has nothing to do with real psychotherapy. But something tells me that this is not too far off real therapy.
I'm not a psych PhD student though I've taken college level psychology courses (cognitive and social mostly). My major is mathematics. I wanted to get a good answer to my question but in part I don't think my classmates know the answer and in part I'm embarrassed to ask my professor. So I found this wonderful forum and thought to ask here.
The thing is I'm hooked on Dr Phil. That's the embarrassing part. Because I am by principle against reality type shows. Now here's the question: Very often Dr Phil asks the people on his show, "How is that working for you?" I used to think that was brilliant. It seems so mechanical, so precise, not touchy feely at all. In other words, you're not asking the person to imagine to get in touch with their "inner child" but to look specifically at how some behavior is working or not working.
But then it occurred to me while watching his show a few days ago...the answer is never that clear! First off, working for WHO? And is it short term or long term? Also what about ethics? And what if something is working when it's about getting a particular thing you want but not something else equally important? And sometimes the person may not be after the right kind of thing in the first place (a drug addict's behavior to get drugs).
So some examples: Abuse DOES work, otherwise nobody would do it. Also if you're after a girl you like, certain very questionable behavior also work in the short term, and depending on the girl, also in the long term. Whether those behavior are ethical, that's a different question. Same thing in business. Or politics. My father is a rather famous politician in my city so I know this for a fact. So just because something works for some purpose does not mean it's "right" nor that it does not work does it mean it's "wrong."
So my question is: What is the source of all this functional talk? How do you guys use this idea of "what works" to help people? Is this common sense stuff (the way somebody might say, Hey you can't cram the night before an exam, or is there some kind of psychological research or philosophical mindset behind all these functional (if "functional" is even the right word) evaluations.
Thank you for humoring me. It may be that Dr Phil stuff has nothing to do with real psychotherapy. But something tells me that this is not too far off real therapy.