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See, that's my issue.
I'm constantly concerned for the well-being of others, and it really bothers me, occasionally to the point of losing sleep. For instance, there was a family of four in front me in line at the grocery store last weekend, their conveyer section contained a 24 pack of bush light, a gallon of milk, some meat products, and a bag of rice. After the cashier rang everything up, their debit card was declined and they slowly began removing items from the conveyor, the food products being the first to go, and the case of beer and a bag of chips were the only things that remained. Their two little kids were questioning what they would be eating for dinner, and I “lost it.” After forcefully giving the family $15 as they left the store, I knew I made a mistake as they would most likely be picking up a cartoon of cigarettes on the way home. Something like this will stick with me for years, constantly stressing over what the hell is wrong with people and what more I could have done.
People are crazy and you can't fix crazy and will go crazy trying to do so. Do what you can and accept that's all you can do. You'll be happier in the long run.