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I am a first year student in a D.O./Ph.D. program (OMS-1, haven't started PhD work), and I'd like some feedback on how quitting the PhD could be detrimental, or not.
I love research, but my major concern is a personal one, being I recently got engaged this summer and will soon be adopting my fiancees 7 year old daughter. My university is 2.5 hours from where they live. We have found no quality public schools near my university (she currently is in one of the best schools in the state), nor have we found jobs that wouldn't force my fiancee to take a huge paycut. I am not willing to jeopardize the education or financial well-being of our child. Nor am I thrilled about having a long-distance marriage for the next six years- nor do I want to wait six years to get married.
If I quit the PhD program, I am able to do rotations in years 3-4 at a hospital close to my family (which would not be possible if I did the PhD- I'd have to stay near the university). The program is NOT MSTP, and I will not have to pay anything back if I quit now. I'm most concerned about any detriment to the school or my reputation--- I don't want to look unprofessional!
Any advice is appreciated!
I love research, but my major concern is a personal one, being I recently got engaged this summer and will soon be adopting my fiancees 7 year old daughter. My university is 2.5 hours from where they live. We have found no quality public schools near my university (she currently is in one of the best schools in the state), nor have we found jobs that wouldn't force my fiancee to take a huge paycut. I am not willing to jeopardize the education or financial well-being of our child. Nor am I thrilled about having a long-distance marriage for the next six years- nor do I want to wait six years to get married.
If I quit the PhD program, I am able to do rotations in years 3-4 at a hospital close to my family (which would not be possible if I did the PhD- I'd have to stay near the university). The program is NOT MSTP, and I will not have to pay anything back if I quit now. I'm most concerned about any detriment to the school or my reputation--- I don't want to look unprofessional!
Any advice is appreciated!
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