ConcernedHusband
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Hi,
My wife started her residency a few months ago in a prestigious program. I knew that the hours will be bad and was ready for it, but now I'm concerned about her health. I understand that most residents work more than the 80 hours per week and that they just lie when logging their hours. I though that that's immoral and advised my wife to be honest (responsible adults don't need to lie in my opinion) but after reading some horror stories here, I'm rethinking it.
My main issue is that recently she's been working under an overly cautious, insecure senior resident who my wife is guiding more often than the other way around. The senior resident gets distracted and wastes a lot of time on things that wouldn't change the course of care and my wife has to constantly remind her to focus on important things. My wife recently started coming home around midnight, works on her notes until 1-2am and wakes up at 5:30 am to go to work. Not always, but a few times per week. We live next to the hospital so that ends up being around 4 hours of sleep. Her senior resident somehow works even longer hours. Other residents are working very long hours as well, longer than 80, but my wife was unlucky and she has more patients than the others. This will last for only a month, but my wife became shaky, pale, exhausted from the lack of sleep, but she denies it. I know for a fact that what she's going through isn't healthy. She's also an agreeable person and doesn't want to rock the boat but I don't know if this is normal. At which point would you complain about the amount of work and hours? I know that the laws are being broken routinely and that you shouldn't complain, but is there a limit? What is too much? What should she do?
My wife started her residency a few months ago in a prestigious program. I knew that the hours will be bad and was ready for it, but now I'm concerned about her health. I understand that most residents work more than the 80 hours per week and that they just lie when logging their hours. I though that that's immoral and advised my wife to be honest (responsible adults don't need to lie in my opinion) but after reading some horror stories here, I'm rethinking it.
My main issue is that recently she's been working under an overly cautious, insecure senior resident who my wife is guiding more often than the other way around. The senior resident gets distracted and wastes a lot of time on things that wouldn't change the course of care and my wife has to constantly remind her to focus on important things. My wife recently started coming home around midnight, works on her notes until 1-2am and wakes up at 5:30 am to go to work. Not always, but a few times per week. We live next to the hospital so that ends up being around 4 hours of sleep. Her senior resident somehow works even longer hours. Other residents are working very long hours as well, longer than 80, but my wife was unlucky and she has more patients than the others. This will last for only a month, but my wife became shaky, pale, exhausted from the lack of sleep, but she denies it. I know for a fact that what she's going through isn't healthy. She's also an agreeable person and doesn't want to rock the boat but I don't know if this is normal. At which point would you complain about the amount of work and hours? I know that the laws are being broken routinely and that you shouldn't complain, but is there a limit? What is too much? What should she do?
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