Personal experience only, but happy to share if it helps at all.
I had a single episode of serotonin syndrome around a decade or so ago, which was triggered by taking Venflaxine (75 mgs) on top of a regular dosage of Tramadol (150 mgs bds). And yes it was definitely serotonin syndrome, that is what I was diagnosed with and treated for in the ED and my symptoms were consistent with a number of the Hunter Criteria (spontaneous clonus, hypertonia, tremor, agitation, confusion, ocular clonus, diaphoresis). I can give a more detailed description of my actual experience from onset to treatment if it will add anything useful to the discussion.
Since that singular episode I've obviously been more wary of anti-depressant medication whilst still being on a daily dosage of Tramadol. To this end my former Psychiatrist tended to lean more towards older style ADs (such as Deptran, which I had taken previously with no ill effects, and Mirtazapine), adopted a 'start low, go slow' approach to dosage and titration, and had me come in for a one hour monitoring session (basically a therapy session with an extra 15 minutes and observations being done) for a first time dosage of a new AD. As I said I did tolerate Deptran quite well, even with the addition of another serotonergic agent, and also found no issues with Mirtazapine either. I also found both the in person/in rooms monitoring, and patient education regarding the possibility of anxiety and/or panic attack (due to perhaps hyper vigilance regarding a potential re-occurence of serotonin syndrome - which on a personal level I found to be a rather terrifying experience) to be particular helpful.