This is a great insight, thank you! I have dived down the youtube rabbit hole, but I will be sure to continue to do so and reach out to shadow some professionals.
The university near me has an EdS program and a Clinical Mental Health Counseling M.Ed. (CACRED) and a PsyD program, I think I will reach out to people in both programs to discuss the options. I really do not see a doctoral program being realistic right now until my husband gets through his program, so from a facts and figures point of view, I think I need to cut the PsyD out. At the end of the day, I just want a fulfilling career, that pays decent, I need to take my undergraduate tunnel vision goggles off. Between School Psyc and being a therapist both sound like equally fulfilling careers and the pros and cons seem rather even from a logistical point of view. The option to have more autonomy over your schedule as a therapist sounds very beneficial (especially with how career-driven my husband is someone has to give a little slack even for simple things like taking the dog out lol) but the salary makes me a little nervous...I know some of that is just googling is not quite accurate...but still makes me a bit nervous. But then School Psychology gives you an in-demand job, government benefits, and school holidays which I am sure are very nice and money saver if you have kids. But, being in demand means likely huge case loads and very busy days. Additionally, both have the option to continue on to a Ph.D. eventually, opening doors to teaching, etc. Just typing out my thoughts, there are certainly a lot of pros and cons to both.