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First off, very, very sorry to hear of these travails. No one should ever have to go through this!
1.) Since my incident was pretty violent and a lot of school officials know about it I was told my university's sexual assault center could write a letter that I could submit (the event happened finals week and I literally could not take a single exam because of how not okay I was at the time so I have one bad semester but all my other semesters are 3.75+) - basically the letter would just say that something traumatic happened and the school doesn't believe my academic record for that semester is representative of me as a student since before I got assaulted I was doing well in the classes. Should I have this addition?
Nothing wrong with this!2.) My main clinical experiences are working as a first responder specifically for victims of sexual assault/domestic violence at the hospital and I have done 200 hours in the last 6 months (shifts range from 15-24 hours and we have a minimum monthly requirement so it definitely gets to be a lot) and I work as a self employed doula and I have about 100 hours over the course of 10 months for that! in total I'm hoping to get the first responding to 300 hours and the doula work to 150 hours or so before I submit
Are these experiences too focused on women's health? Should I try to find something that isn't so specific??? Would people look down on me for being selective with the subset of people I work with??
While we use the rule of thumb that "if it's in your app, it's fair game", in reality, there are some places we can't go as interviewers. I've seen this first hand, when an interviewee was asked (in an oblique way, not directly) about a trauma that they had written about, said interviewee burst into tears. I surmise that you might go so far as to ask the Admissions dean, if you get an interview, to please not have the interviewers ask about this. If some interviewer has the attitude of "you wrote about it, so you need to be tough enough to talk about it", then that's not a school I'd want my kids to go to.3.) I alluded to the incident in my personal statement, but does this mean people will ask me exactly what happened in interviews? I'm fine with saying I was assaulted but honestly I'm still in the process of recovering and I don't want to get into the details of what happened so would they ask that?