Some Thoughts on Graduation Cancellations

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TheDeal93

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In light of this pandemic and all graduations being cancelled and converted to virtual ceremonies, just wanted to share/vent some thoughts I've been having. Hopefully this strikes a chord with some people.

I'm personally super bummed that I won't be able to experience graduation. Obviously, I'm not sitting here wanting graduation to still happen with 1000+ people in the middle of a global pandemic. It's the right and only decision to cancel everything. I more so mean that I'm bummed that we won't get this experience. We all earned professional degrees, which I think we sometimes forget about during the day to day grind. I'm sure we all worked our butts off these last 4 years to accomplish everything that we did. We all took different paths to medical school with different trials and tribulations along the way. And med school itself was a roller coaster ride for 4 years; I'm sure we had those days where we loved what we were doing but also those days where we wanted to throw something against the wall in anger because we were tired of studying or sleep deprived or stressed beyond belief for Step 1 or something similar.

I know some people (especially on SDN) aren't the sentimental type and that's okay, but it just sucks that we can't don the cap and gown, hear our name being called, walk across that stage celebrate our accomplishments and hard work with family/friends. Maybe some people don't care about that stuff but as someone who lost a parent at a young age and had a difficult time throughout the journey, it's meaningful to me. I'm sure even the most anti-social or non-sentimental people would still have appreciated graduation in their own small way if things were normal.

Again, a graduation ceremony in the grand scheme of things is not the most important thing when thousands of people are losing their lives. But just wanted to remind fellow M4s to not lose sight of your accomplishments and hopefully you're able to find a way to celebrate with your loved ones soon.
 
I 100% agree with you. My school canceled graduation very early on, so at this point, I've had the time to accept it. As a non-traditional who struggled to get into medical school and then excelled once I was there by working like crazy, I was really looking forward to that one day celebration. Mostly because I can't even see or celebrate with my family right now due to the COVID19 situation. I think if we could at least be together that day, I'd feel better. My school is letting us get caps/gowns for pictures, but those don't arrive til late May/June. I think I'm just going to wait until next spring/summer/fall to truly celebrate and perhaps hire a photographer to take some unique graduation pictures of my family and I a year late. This was super important to them. They were so excited to come visit me (I'm 12+ hours away and don't see them often) and they're sad that they can't share this monumental milestone in my life as planned. I'm just trying to be happy about the things I have, be creative to still have a good graduation day with my significant other at home/outside and let go of all the things (canceled match day, canceled graduation, 3 canceled vacations, canceled marathons) that have happened that are entirely out of my control. Just remember that despite this stinging a bit, it's okay to be sad about it and it doesn't lessen any of your accomplishments!! Utmost congratulations to you and the class of 2020! At least we have jobs!
 
I am very sorry many of you will not have an opportunity to celebrate your amazing achievement in front of your family, friends and colleagues at a conventional graduation ceremony.

Therefore, please accept my sincerest congratulations on a job WELL DONE!!!!

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