Spouse weight gain?

[jhmmd]

So what's the approach to this? Keep mum and never say anything? Use subtle ways to get them to cut down on caloric intake/exercise? Or just confront them and roll the dice. We all know medicine is stressful enough as it is. Asking for a friend.

Assertive, not aggressive or passive aggressive. Case is closed.

 

[BillAlfonso]

Of course, I’m not a psychologist, but I can tell you what to do. The first thing I would definitely do is talk to my spouse. Most often, such issues are resolved through discussions and coming to the middle. What I definitely wouldn’t do is start a conversation with insults and attacks.