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As I tell patients in this situation
" at the end of the day...it isn't my eyes..it's yours so whatever you want to do is ok with me but you are probably going to damage your eyes permanently if you don't get out of the lenses"
the point is I tell them what needs to be said, if they want to be idiots I let them..As a doctor your responsibility is to tell patients the consequences of doing and not doing certain things. People are allowed to make bad decisions. It is not your job to "force" people or yell at them until they do what you consider to be a good decision. As long as they know the risks of their behaviour it is fine. Now a patient like this I am not going to give them a new contact rx but I tell them " you should not wear your contacts if you want this to get better and not go blind..if you don't care about your vision you can do as you please but that is a bad idea" Not clear how it doesn't make sense to do that.
that pt should be told in no uncertain terms that they cannot do those things. No exception. Sure you can't force them but that's beside the point. Saying "you can do as you please" is vague and could imply the wrong idea. Just sayin....
I disagree. I have plenty of patient that do unsafe things, and my spiel goes something like "You need to stop doing X. If you don't, you will likely suffer from bad things Y and Z. You're an adult, what you do is up to you". I don't tell them that they absolutely cannot do anything because a) that's just not true, the diabetic can, in fact, eat 5 cartons of Ben and Jerry's every day and b) you can't really tell people what to do. Our job is to make recommendations and to facilitate those recommendations through drugs, treatments, further studies, f/u. Obviously we can stop enabling our patients, no more contacts/narcotics/whatever; but, we can't force them to do anything.
If somebody aks me "can I sleep in my cl's", I say "no", not "well you shouldn't but its your life, do what you want". I think my way is better 😛