I'm actually one of the happiest people in my class. I genuinly enjoy what I'm doing, which is why I spend so much time doing it. And I'm not suggesting studying another ten hours when you know the material cold; when I hit that point, I got a job in a lab, which has been very interesting and productive. I scrubbed in a lot during my preclinical years, which again was very interesting and productive. This is described by many in my class as a "lack of balance", but for me it worked and continues to work. As far as salary, my guess is that most of you will make more than I do, because I'm committed to remaining in an academic environment.
My comments above were based on four years of having other people judge me for doing what makes me happy. I realize that for the majority of people, working >100hrs per week is undesirable, exhausting, and unnecessary. But for what I do, want to do, and who I am, it is desirable, exillerating, and necessary -- which is why I do it.
I don't particuarlly judge the crowd that quietly seeks balance or their own happiness. But there is a vocal group of people who constantly try to force their view of what life is about on me. It is at that group my comments above were directed. And they do tend to make snarky comments about how 'we might score lower on an exam, or make less, but we're happier healthier people'. How can you be so sure, given that you've never met me?
Anka