I have a question that I have asked before on the blog but haven't gotten response to yet. What is the best way to communicate to referring ODs when there is a major mismanagement issue. For example, I recently saw a basal cell that an ophthalmologist watched for six months as a "skin tag" before the patient came and saw me for a second opinion. I biopsied it and it was a basal cell. I called the guy up and said literally "Hey Mike I saw your patient Leslie Smith who came in for a second opinion.ended up biopsying the lesion and it was basal cell. What the *(#)@ were you thinking man? If there is a question ever just send it over to me or someone else. Its not a problem". His reponse literrally " Man, I totally dropped the ball on that one. It was a really bad call. Thanks for letting me know though". Its not like I am best friends with that guy or anything. We met once at a meeting two years ago for 30 secondas. Anyway, the next week he sent me two patients. I feel that with my OD colleagues I can't be that open or honest and I have to sugarcoat something like that with a "Hey basal cell can be really tough to diagnose" or "It could go either way in that situation..no one would fault you for that". If I hit an OD doc with what I said to the ophthalmologist they would either get defensive or say nothing and never ever send me a patient. What is the best approach in that situation?