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So for about 3 weeks I've been considering deferring vet school for a year and using my psych degree instead. I probably won't do it, especially after my dad tried to dissuade me yesterday, but I wanted to get some opinions from other vettie people.
I'm not sure I want to go to vet school in the fall. After reading all the threads and posts about how miserable vet school is, I'm thinking it might not be worth it, for the following reasons (not including relationship emotional mess):
1) the dismal job outlook
2) debt:income ratio
3) the lifestyle...I'm not sure that I really do want to work the long, unpredictable hours
4) when I was doing SA shadowing, I assumed this wasn't what I would be doing since I was interested in equine. After last summer I decided I don't want to do equine, but I haven't done SA since I made that decision
5) I've never done anything but vet stuff, so how do I know that's really what I want to do? When I was taking Personality and reading Carl Rogers' description of what he does in therapy, I thought 'this is something I could see myself doing.' I silenced that voice of course because I had to be 100% dedicated to getting into vet school, but now I'm going back to that.
As I previously mentioned, my dad tried to dissuade me. He doesn't think I will hate vet school "because I love learning and have great school skills" (he also doesn't want me to defer because he thinks those school skills will atrophy). I tried telling him pretty much everyone in vet school loves learning this stuff, and that's why they got there, but...anyway, his responses to my 5 arguments:
1) Firm belief that "if you're good at what you do, you'll have a job" and the numbers shouldn't scare me off
2) I've basically got all the debt I'm going to get; apparently he makes enough money that my financial concerns are moot (I know, I am ridiculously privileged. Hence I'm kind of disregarding his disregard)
3) There's no such thing as a simple 9-5 job, vet is just an extreme example but I'd have to deal with that in psych anyway
4) If I'm really worried about it I can get more SA experience over breaks (but I'd rather get different experiences over breaks)/"yes you do like it and want to do it I read your essays"
5) Really not wanting me to do psychology; it scares him because I would be "locking myself in a small room with someone who's mentally unstable"
Dad's plan for me would be that I go for at least the first semester and try it out, but I know I can't do that; I know I need to be 100% invested in vet school if I go to vet school. He also thinks if I asked for a deferral, whether or not they granted it, the professors would put down my performance in a "reverse Pygmalion effect" where I would be a worse student because they don't think I'm serious about this.
During my deferral year, I would like to get a job where I can get experience with clinical/counseling psychology, take a semester of classes (prerequisites for a counseling master's program if I decide to go that route), and get some more SA vet experience. There are still a number of questions to be answered, such as whether I keep my IS status no matter what and a mess of questions about what counseling is really like.
If you read all that, I really appreciate it. If not,
tl;dr: I'm scared of vet school and a career in vet med for various reasons and thinking about deferring a year to explore psychology instead. My dad is trying to dissuade me from this thinking/thinks deferral in general is a bad idea. I want your opinions.
I'm not sure I want to go to vet school in the fall. After reading all the threads and posts about how miserable vet school is, I'm thinking it might not be worth it, for the following reasons (not including relationship emotional mess):
1) the dismal job outlook
2) debt:income ratio
3) the lifestyle...I'm not sure that I really do want to work the long, unpredictable hours
4) when I was doing SA shadowing, I assumed this wasn't what I would be doing since I was interested in equine. After last summer I decided I don't want to do equine, but I haven't done SA since I made that decision
5) I've never done anything but vet stuff, so how do I know that's really what I want to do? When I was taking Personality and reading Carl Rogers' description of what he does in therapy, I thought 'this is something I could see myself doing.' I silenced that voice of course because I had to be 100% dedicated to getting into vet school, but now I'm going back to that.
As I previously mentioned, my dad tried to dissuade me. He doesn't think I will hate vet school "because I love learning and have great school skills" (he also doesn't want me to defer because he thinks those school skills will atrophy). I tried telling him pretty much everyone in vet school loves learning this stuff, and that's why they got there, but...anyway, his responses to my 5 arguments:
1) Firm belief that "if you're good at what you do, you'll have a job" and the numbers shouldn't scare me off
2) I've basically got all the debt I'm going to get; apparently he makes enough money that my financial concerns are moot (I know, I am ridiculously privileged. Hence I'm kind of disregarding his disregard)
3) There's no such thing as a simple 9-5 job, vet is just an extreme example but I'd have to deal with that in psych anyway
4) If I'm really worried about it I can get more SA experience over breaks (but I'd rather get different experiences over breaks)/"yes you do like it and want to do it I read your essays"
5) Really not wanting me to do psychology; it scares him because I would be "locking myself in a small room with someone who's mentally unstable"
Dad's plan for me would be that I go for at least the first semester and try it out, but I know I can't do that; I know I need to be 100% invested in vet school if I go to vet school. He also thinks if I asked for a deferral, whether or not they granted it, the professors would put down my performance in a "reverse Pygmalion effect" where I would be a worse student because they don't think I'm serious about this.
During my deferral year, I would like to get a job where I can get experience with clinical/counseling psychology, take a semester of classes (prerequisites for a counseling master's program if I decide to go that route), and get some more SA vet experience. There are still a number of questions to be answered, such as whether I keep my IS status no matter what and a mess of questions about what counseling is really like.
If you read all that, I really appreciate it. If not,
tl;dr: I'm scared of vet school and a career in vet med for various reasons and thinking about deferring a year to explore psychology instead. My dad is trying to dissuade me from this thinking/thinks deferral in general is a bad idea. I want your opinions.