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Pumping money to fix a problem never works and typically end up making the problems worse.
The disadvantaged/poor communities will never improve until parenting improves. I will never agree that b/c you grew up in a poor area with bad parents means that you do not know how to parent. Putting billions into poor communities will get 90% of the money wasted. Until the parents put their kids, their community, education first then nothing will change.
If you take 2 families in the same area. Give one family 100K without changing their mindset, they will be no better if not worse. If the other family have parents who sacrifice, put their heads down and work hard, and make sure their kid's #1 priority is to develop good kids, they will be better off than family #1 99% of the time.
Give families free handouts without expecting personal improvement will make the person worse. Accept that parenting is terrible in the poorer communities and put money to improve parenting, financial responsibility, fiscal education is the only way to improve these communities.
The disadvantaged/poor communities will never improve until parenting improves. I will never agree that b/c you grew up in a poor area with bad parents means that you do not know how to parent. Putting billions into poor communities will get 90% of the money wasted. Until the parents put their kids, their community, education first then nothing will change.
If you take 2 families in the same area. Give one family 100K without changing their mindset, they will be no better if not worse. If the other family have parents who sacrifice, put their heads down and work hard, and make sure their kid's #1 priority is to develop good kids, they will be better off than family #1 99% of the time.
Give families free handouts without expecting personal improvement will make the person worse. Accept that parenting is terrible in the poorer communities and put money to improve parenting, financial responsibility, fiscal education is the only way to improve these communities.
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