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Hi all. I've been debating whether to post this question for the two years I've been on SDN. Anyway, I'm agender and use they/them pronouns (I was assigned female at birth and have not taken hormones or had surgery, nor do I plan to). I've been working incredibly hard to prepare to apply for PT school (planning on applying during the 2017-2018 cycle). I feel like my only options are:
1. Having to be in the closet during applications, interviews, and PT school & thus be misgendered and miserable throughout the whole process.
2. Risk being out, tell schools when I'm applying that I'm agender (I don't even know how I'd go about that), and hope that it doesn't negatively affect me. And hope that my classmates, professors, peers, etc. would all respect that and use the correct name and pronouns for me.
Has anyone else experienced this? Or have any thoughts? It gives me a great deal of anxiety to think about. I know that I can't legally be discriminated against during applications or in school, but that doesn't mean that people will respect me if they do know.
**EDIT: There are already helpful replies to this thread but I welcome any additional responses. Thank you all for taking the time to talk me through this.
1. Having to be in the closet during applications, interviews, and PT school & thus be misgendered and miserable throughout the whole process.
2. Risk being out, tell schools when I'm applying that I'm agender (I don't even know how I'd go about that), and hope that it doesn't negatively affect me. And hope that my classmates, professors, peers, etc. would all respect that and use the correct name and pronouns for me.
Has anyone else experienced this? Or have any thoughts? It gives me a great deal of anxiety to think about. I know that I can't legally be discriminated against during applications or in school, but that doesn't mean that people will respect me if they do know.
**EDIT: There are already helpful replies to this thread but I welcome any additional responses. Thank you all for taking the time to talk me through this.
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