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I am a spouse of a resident who is about to begin his fellowship. The road has been long and hard to say the least. I am very tired and feel like my life has been spent giving him everything he needs to pursue his career. I am sure many wives feel this way and its normal. I never thought I would be in this boat where my freedom seems to be looking more important to me than a big paycheck that he will be getting in a year or so. He doesn't understand me when I talk to him and always reverts it back to me being the one that has issues because I never pursued further education (well I was trying to get you through school and residency-which to him is not an excuse-cause of course he is a doctor and therefore superman). Don't get me wrong I love my husband to death, but I am just over all of this. We are moving soon to where he will begin his fellowship and now I will have to start again with a job search. I can't tell you how many times I have had to go through that. I just want to know is there anyone out there in this situation-been with their spouse a long time and finally they are seeing the light-but is it worth it?