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so you will opt for an average doctor who holds your hand versus a superior doctor who spends less time with you?
I pay my doctors to do their job, and to do it well, not to hold my hand and tell me everything will be OK.
This makes you a part of a very very small minority of patients. Also, it isn't just patients, it is building a referral network. The reality is that you really need both, good bedside manner and good medicine to be a good physician. It isn't about spending more or less time, it is about respecting the patient. I honestly think that physicians that genuinely care about their patients make better doctors. Even the radiologists or others who have little to no direct patient contact. This isn't about hand holding or sitting down for hours. This is about basic respect and care. Medicine is not all science and numbers, there is a fair amount art behind practice.
Also, you need to remember that of all the medical students accepted, only a small fraction go into radiology or pathology. The vast majority will have a ton of patient contact every day. It is absolutely miserable to watch brilliant doctors who don't understand basic patient communication or critical thinking try to practice medicine. You see it all the time with IMGs. I know 3 residents, all graduates from India, all had 250+ Step 1/2, all crushed their classes, all speak more than proficient English, but they are barely functional, even as upper level residents because they have significant difficulty administrating effective patient care. They are the ultimate examples of people that can easily cut it academically, but are poorly suited to practice medicine. Largely went into it for prestige (family pressure++), excelled because they are the best of the best in a country were schools are much more competitive than hours, but lack the interest in caring for patients and develop a clock in, clock out mentality.