I'll give this one a shot.
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I believe your confusion lies in interpreting these values in terms of the system and surroundings.
The 2nd law of thermodynamics states that all spontaneous processes proceed such that the entropy of the system and surroundings (and therefore the universe) increases. This applies to isolated systems and the universe itself is considered an isolated system. ⌂S(universe) = ⌂S(system) + ⌂(surroundings) This is a law so we'll just have to accept it and go from there.
Exothermic reactions are also spontaneous with ⌂H < 0. Enthalpy is defined in terms of the
system. Having a negative ⌂H, such as ⌂H = -10kJ means that 10kJ of heat energy was
released from the system and so 10kJ of heat energy was
absorbed by the surroundings which would be some other object in the universe.
⌂S(system) = ⌂S(whatever released energy) + ⌂S(whatever absorbed energy).
⌂S(whatever released energy) = ⌂q/T1.
⌂S(whatever absorbed energy) = ⌂q/T2.
So ⌂S(system) = [-⌂q/T1] + [⌂q/T2].
Since T1>T2 (heat was released from 1 and transferred to 2), your ⌂S(system) > 0 showing that it's spontaneous.
This increases the temperature of the surroundings, therefore the entropy of the surroundings increases. The entropy of the surroundings increases more than the decrease in entropy of the system so the overall ⌂S of the universe is positive and therefore spontaneous.
Simply put, exothermic reactions increase entropy of the whole universe. If you have a hot object and set it on a cool object, the hot object will transfer heat to the cooler object increasing its entropy more than the decrease in entropy from the hot object.

Sorry, I know this still might be confusing.