So, throughout med school, I’ve always introduced myself by first name, working with [specialty rotating on] team. So as reality is striking me that I’ll be an intern in a few months I wanted to know y’all thoughts on contiuining this during the course of residency. I could see potential boundary issues with certain patients, mainly young females, but I think I’ll go with it until someone tells me otherwise.
Dr. Lastname for all inpatient settings when dealing with patients/their families. Firstname when dealing with basically any staff. Dr. Lastname when you have to do a prior auth, commitment hearing, or one of those damn insurance peer-to-peers.
It’s not at all about confidence for me. I have a lot of gripes with the pretentiousness of medicine and it’s something I’d like to change, at least for the teams I’m working with. I’ve just ran into too many cowards, backstabbers and liars in school that Id like to maintain my own set of principles. I tried to rank where I matched based on genuinity, but this process is unpredictable.
Yeah, that's really making it more about you and your perceptions than about the patient or their care. The vast majority of patients expect you to say Dr. ____. I would get used to it. Patients see literally dozens if not hundreds of people throughout their stay. Most psychiatrists don't wear white coats, so if you're not identifying yourself as Dr. when you first meet them, they have no idea who to talk to or ask for when they have a problem with their med or want to talk about their options.
It takes time getting used to, and I still sometimes slip up and use my first name, but its something that I try to avoid. It is true that patients seem to be more comforted by Dr. Hallowmann than by my first name.
I do see your point. Have you or anyone who’s replied here seen where using your first name, I’m a doctor etc turn out to be bad? I’m trying to figure out what everyone’s basing this stuff on. For instance, I see no practical reason for having social workers and nurses address me as doctor.
Honestly, I've seen people take me less seriously or repeatedly struggle to realize that I'm their doctor and they need to tell me the things they don't feel comfortable telling anyone who's not "their doctor". They also tended to always refer to the attending as their doctor, which while accurate doesn't reflect the fact that I'm making a lot of the decisions in their care when Dr. Attending peaces out for a few hours a day, and ultimately its me who is communicating with their family, setting up follow-up, filling out FMLA, committing them, and writing virtually everything that is in their patient record.
Maybe in an outpatient setting first name would work (although as you alluded to it could get you into more trouble with certain populations), but for inpatient, Dr. Lastname is the way to go. The vast vast majority of people don't find it pretentious, its helpful because it helps identify you as that person that Nurses are talking about when they say, "you'll have to talk to your doctor about that". Now if you start expecting to be called Dr. literally everywhere, that's where people start to feel its pretentious, but when you first meet patients, they need to know you're their doctor.
Again, for every other member of staff (nurses, other residents/attendings, pharmacists, social workers, front desk staff/clerks, schedulers, PAs, ARNPs, custodians, etc.) its Firstname. I don't really need to make it clear to those people that I'm a doctor for the sake of patient care.