I know how "cool" being a med student but what about the real life , is it so that cool?
I know how "cool" being a med student but what about the real life , is it so that cool?
🙁Being hungover in the OR is a uniquely humbling experience. Not because of nausea or other beer-related smells, but definitely because you can't go #2 for hours (and hours)
I know how "cool" being a med student but what about the real life , is it so that cool?
You give up hobbies, you give up friendships, you give up doing the things you love. You replace them with hours of work, hours of studying. Not like 1-2 a day. I mean like 12 a day. You get older. Your liver works less well, and hangovers get worse. You drink less. You get fat. You try to stay in shape but Step 1 studying overwhelms you. You get lost in this deep dark pit that consumes your soul. Alot of people struggle. They struggle academically, they struggle mentally, they struggle emotionally.
Is anything he said untrue?lol dramatic
Medical school, in particular my second year, was the worst experience of my life. I was a super nerd in high school, college was pretty awesome, work in between was alright. Residency rocks hard core. Medical school blew.
You give up hobbies, you give up friendships, you give up doing the things you love. You replace them with hours of work, hours of studying. Not like 1-2 a day. I mean like 12 a day. You get older. Your liver works less well, and hangovers get worse. You drink less. You get fat. You try to stay in shape but Step 1 studying overwhelms you. You get lost in this deep dark pit that consumes your soul. Alot of people struggle. They struggle academically, they struggle mentally, they struggle emotionally.
The rewards are by far worth the cost. But you will realize that you have little autonomy, are the target of abuse from literally everyone (**** rolls downhill, and you are at the bottom with a bucket big enough for about a person and a half), and you will work harder, longer hours than you ever have before.
The rewards have to be in personal satisfcation that your knowledge will, some day, contribute to making someone's life better. The joy of learning knowledge for the sake of learning. Understanding that wasted income, substantial debt, and a life of humility is worth the good you do in the world.
Med school sucked. Third year was fun. Fourth year was chill. Being a doctor (albeit a resident), is AWESOME.
Is anything he said untrue?
Is anything he said untrue?
You give up hobbies,
you give up friendships,
you give up doing the things you love.
You replace them with hours of work, hours of studying. Not like 1-2 a day. I mean like 12 a day.
You get older.
Your liver works less well
, and hangovers get worse.
You drink less.
You get fat.
You try to stay in shape but Step 1 studying overwhelms you. You get lost in this deep dark pit that consumes your soul.
Medical school, in particular my second year, was the worst experience of my life. I was a super nerd in high school, college was pretty awesome, work in between was alright. Residency rocks hard core. Medical school blew.
You give up hobbies, you give up friendships, you give up doing the things you love. You replace them with hours of work, hours of studying. Not like 1-2 a day. I mean like 12 a day. You get older. Your liver works less well, and hangovers get worse. You drink less. You get fat. You try to stay in shape but Step 1 studying overwhelms you. You get lost in this deep dark pit that consumes your soul. Alot of people struggle. They struggle academically, they struggle mentally, they struggle emotionally.
The rewards are by far worth the cost. But you will realize that you have little autonomy, are the target of abuse from literally everyone (**** rolls downhill, and you are at the bottom with a bucket big enough for about a person and a half), and you will work harder, longer hours than you ever have before.
The rewards have to be in personal satisfcation that your knowledge will, some day, contribute to making someone's life better. The joy of learning knowledge for the sake of learning. Understanding that wasted income, substantial debt, and a life of humility is worth the good you do in the world.
Med school sucked. Third year was fun. Fourth year was chill. Being a doctor (albeit a resident), is AWESOME.
Also, for those of you who worked full time during undergrad, med school will not be that much of a change.
Absolutely false. I worked full time while in undergrad. It was hard, but it cannot compare to what med school (1st and 2nd year ... as those are the only ones I have experience with so far) is like.
Med school is difficult because you have to go to sleep each night knowing that if you want to quit, you will have enough debt to make the rest of your life a living hell.
A friend of mine nearly dropped out after the first year. He decided to buy a 45 ACP Kimber before the summer. This guy has never been into guns, so I asked him about it. He said that if he were to quit, his whole life would be ruined, so he wanted to have a way to end his life quickly should he decide to really drop out of school.
Props for AVGN.
But seriously, med school is not half as hard as people (on SDN) make it out to be.
Also, for those of you who worked full time during undergrad, med school will not be that much of a change.
A friend of mine nearly dropped out after the first year. He decided to buy a 45 ACP Kimber before the summer. This guy has never been into guns, so I asked him about it. He said that if he were to quit, his whole life would be ruined, so he wanted to have a way to end his life quickly should he decide to really drop out of school.
Oh, I'm pretty sure third year is going to plow me. But people are definitely making way toooo big a deal about the basic science BS years.
For somebody so concerned about loans a .45 Kimber is a pretty expensive gun to off yourself with. A piece of crap Hi-Point would be the way to go for the money conscious.
Yes, quite a few things. I will only comment in the things I quoted, for the sake of time.
I still played videogames, played golf, worked out, read for fun, etc. Most people do still things that they enjoy. Now I'm not a professional golfer or anything, so yeah, med school did limit my time on the course a little, but no more than working a full time job did.
Only if you want to. Since I moved away, I was no longer 15 minutes down the street from various friends, but you have phones, email, facebook, and so on and so forth to keep in touch.
Again, only if you want to.
Nobody studies 12 hours a day every single day, and if they say they do, they're probably lying. Yeah, you study a ****load, but not that much everyday.
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Your patients may be dying, they may be addicted to things, they may need to give up things they love. You run the risk of killing people or making their situations worse. In rare instances you can get exposed to TB, C Diff., and blood borne illnesses. You will see and smell some disgusting things, and won't be allowed to let the patient know anything is wrong from your deadpan expression. And frustration always runs downhill, so you might get verbally abused by folks by virtue of being the low person on the totem pole. So yeah, it's not about being cool most of the time.
He never said that he studies 12 hours everyday. But there were a lot of days that I had to study 12 hours per day.
You even admit that med school limited your time on the golf course - so technically isn't that you giving something up?
I used to golf multiple times per week before med school - during med school there was no way I could do it that often (due to both time and money constraints). Isn't that me giving up my weekly golf trip?
With the friendships... "keeping in touch" does not equal maintaining them. I tried staying close with texts/facebook/whatever but after a while if you don't hangout the friendship isn't the same.
Whether or not you find medical school difficult/draining/requiring that you give up hobbies (especially the first two years) really depends on what your background is.
If before med school you spent two years doing a post-bac program (where you took med school classes) of course you're going to have an easier time.
Whether or not you're a pass fail school matters, what specialty you're planning on going into matters...there's just too many variables for someone to generalize that "it's much easier than youre making it out to be!"
Someone I'm rotating with now said that while in medical school he was able to golf more often than ever in his life before. I asked how that was possible and he said that his family joined a country club so he plays for free.
So much love on here. Now I know why none of my friends were pre-med in undergrad and why 60% of my class sucks.
so much love on here. Now i know why none of my friends were pre-med in undergrad and why 60% of my class sucks.
I recently got a message that more or less accuses me of being a horrible person who is enabling a friend's potential suicide. The person also told me that because of this, I do not belong in the medical field.
Let me make this clear:
1. I simply gave advice on a matter that I have experience on. I never told my friend to go kill himself. I will not be facing any legal problems because of the advice I have given.
2. Yes, I do care about my friend. Do I wish for his death? No. Do I wish for him to live? Yes. Will I step in and force him to seek help (by ratting him out to the school's admins ... and possibly ending his medical career)? No.
I'll listen to him and talk to him as a friend. But I do not believe in interfering with his free will. He's an adult capable of making his own decisions.
That is all.
What Bad things could face you as Med Student ?
While suicide is a serious matter and GulDahntay's actions (if true) are pretty screwed-up....
In my experience this is true (and same for everything else thechad has said).
I've been waiting years now to experience the horror that people make med school out to be, and it just hasn't happened. At this point I'm convinced it's not coming.
Even the legendary step I study period was alright; I only had to set my alarm once in a two month period, worked out 5+ days a week and had the flexibility to visit out of town friends.
Yeah, this is called growing up. Most people who get a job after college go through the same thing. You work long hours, you relocate to find a good job, your hobbies become answering emails at 8:30 at night. Ask any grown up in a professional position; I'd guess the VAST majority had to cut back on their golf time when they got a job.He never said that he studies 12 hours everyday. But there were a lot of days that I had to study 12 hours per day.
You even admit that med school limited your time on the golf course - so technically isn't that you giving something up?
I used to golf multiple times per week before med school - during med school there was no way I could do it that often (due to both time and money constraints). Isn't that me giving up my weekly golf trip?
With the friendships... "keeping in touch" does not equal maintaining them. I tried staying close with texts/facebook/whatever but after a while if you don't hangout the friendship isn't the same.
Whether or not you find medical school difficult/draining/requiring that you give up hobbies (especially the first two years) really depends on what your background is.
If before med school you spent two years doing a post-bac program (where you took med school classes) of course you're going to have an easier time.
Yeah, this is called growing up. Most people who get a job after college go through the same thing. You work long hours, you relocate to find a good job, your hobbies become answering emails at 8:30 at night. Ask any grown up in a professional position; I'd guess the VAST majority had to cut back on their golf time when they got a job.
College is not the real world. Comparing your life now, whether in med school or a job, to what you did in college is like comparing college to high school. Totally pointless.
Absolutely false. I worked full time while in undergrad. It was hard, but it cannot compare to what med school (1st and 2nd year ... as those are the only ones I have experience with so far) is like.
Med school is difficult because you have to go to sleep each night knowing that if you want to quit, you will have enough debt to make the rest of your life a living hell.
A friend of mine nearly dropped out after the first year. He decided to buy a 45 ACP Kimber before the summer. This guy has never been into guns, so I asked him about it. He said that if he were to quit, his whole life would be ruined, so he wanted to have a way to end his life quickly should he decide to really drop out of school.
Not the best analogy. High school and college are at least comparable. College vs. real life - f*** that.Comparing your life now, whether in med school or a job, to what you did in college is like comparing college to high school. Totally pointless.