I'm a PGY2 (overseas, not US) and have completed a total of ~6 months of emergency medicine. I have loved ED, loved the variety, pace, intellectual challenges, independence, and above all, the teamwork, and can't find many reasons not to pursue it.
Despite this, everyone I gush to about it tries to talk me out of it as a career choice! This includes my supervisors from other terms (geriatrics, gen surg), relatives of mine that are doctors, medical friends of the family, medical friends and even non-medical friends... They warn me that I will burn out, that the thrill will wear out, that it's too stressful, you deal with the scum of society, "glorified triage" etc. etc. Ironically many of these people suggest surgery as a preferable career option! (So I don't give too much weight to their opinions...)
Now I won't let them stop me - I know it's a very rare thing to love turning up to work and I wouldn't walk away from a career choice out of fear that that might change - chances are it will, but that's life. But with so many doctors that I respect warning me against this choice, I can't help but wonder where their vitriol comes from, and whether I'm going to have to put up with this forever?
I don't need reassurance that ED is great, I know it is. I just want to know if any of you have put up with the same disapproval from your own support network? It's almost like having a boyfriend no one approves of - why can't they see what I see?? 😛
Thanks for any replies.
Despite this, everyone I gush to about it tries to talk me out of it as a career choice! This includes my supervisors from other terms (geriatrics, gen surg), relatives of mine that are doctors, medical friends of the family, medical friends and even non-medical friends... They warn me that I will burn out, that the thrill will wear out, that it's too stressful, you deal with the scum of society, "glorified triage" etc. etc. Ironically many of these people suggest surgery as a preferable career option! (So I don't give too much weight to their opinions...)
Now I won't let them stop me - I know it's a very rare thing to love turning up to work and I wouldn't walk away from a career choice out of fear that that might change - chances are it will, but that's life. But with so many doctors that I respect warning me against this choice, I can't help but wonder where their vitriol comes from, and whether I'm going to have to put up with this forever?
I don't need reassurance that ED is great, I know it is. I just want to know if any of you have put up with the same disapproval from your own support network? It's almost like having a boyfriend no one approves of - why can't they see what I see?? 😛
Thanks for any replies.