This is a bit long, so bear with me please.🙂
Let me just say that I really, really want to be a dentist. I've thought about it long and hard and I've made up my mind. It's the ideal lifestyle, with the opportunity to help others, have an active homelife, live comfortably, and contribute to public health. I want to do everything I can to become one.
I have a problem though. My GPA is atrocious (2.5). To make a long story short, I've apparently had ADHD my entire life (now 27) and didn't know it. This explains sooooooo many things. I'm a dizzying flurry of ups and downs, and I'm so academically inconsistent. I made a 36 on my ACT but an 1100 on my SAT, for example. Everyone has always told I was very smart but lacked focus. I never bought into the being smart part because my grades were always so terrible. In classes I enjoyed I'd make A's guaranteed... it was always a focus/interest/concentration thing, and if I liked the subject I'd ace it without trying. If I didn't like it or wasn't interested I was guaranteed to struggle, usually ending up with D's and F's. With such consistently poor performance over the years, I eventually convinced myself I was just lazy and incapable of ever amounting to anything. Enter closet depression.
One year ago, having gone almost a decade without graduating with my bachelor's, my fiance convinced me to go get tested for a learning disability. I went, and lo and behold I have hardcore ADHD. I got put on the strongest Adderall they make (30mg XR) and it was like a light switch turned on and everything went quiet in my head. No constant distractions when I try to think, no absent-mindedly putting off something I don't want to do because it isn't fun (such as studying), no inability to formulate and recite a cogent sentence without stumbling over my words because I keep wandering off... now I can actually look people in the eyes and talk to them without anxiously glancing away. I feel like a new man and I'm pissed I spent most of my 20's being a nothing, when had I known all along I had ADHD and medicated myself for it I could possibly be a dentist by now.
I swear it's like a magic pill. For the first time in my life I sat down and studied for something... a genetics exam... having been to class only once in 6 weeks. I made an A on it. Suddenly I'm filled with excitement and hope and so I start wondering if maybe I can turn my life around. Is it too late? Am I too old? I don't think I'm too old, but I'm not so sure about the other part.
My gpa is a sour 2.5. My academic record is riddled with F's, dropped courses, A's, and several D's. I've been in school since 2001 working on a psychology degree and I finally graduate this semester (thank you fiance for suggesting I get tested). Now that I know what I'm capable of, and that my crippling learning disability can be kept in check, I want to go pursue my dream to be a dentist. I've gathered that dental schools are every competitive though, and I'm not so sure I can get in. I'm not even sure how long it would take to fix a GPA like that.
I'm planning on retaking all my science courses over the next year, and I plan on getting A's in all of them. How high can 8+ A's bring up a 2.5 gpa? It's so easy for your GPA to plummet, but it seems likes it's 10x harder to push it back up. Am I going to have to practically ace the DAT to get in? Should I bother spending another year or two working on upping my grades in the hope I'll be accepted to dental school? I see the stats some you guys have, and the figures on how many people apply and get accepted (11k apply/4k accepted) and I get depressed. I don't want to waste my time if I can find some other way to support my family. When an admissions board sees my GPA, even with the string of A's towards the end, will it matter? I want to be competitive but I don't want to even get off the ground if it's a waste of time. I believe in pursuing your dreams at all costs, but we're thinking of having a baby soon and I'm still out of work... I can't afford to spend a year or two trying to get into dental school if I'll ultimately be unable to.
The other problem that I worry about is I have absolutely no study skills. I've never sat down for any length of time to really study... just a little here and there when I had to. However, I understand dental school is as hardcore as it gets and I'm not even sure I'll be able to handle it. Some of you guys have great study skills and lots of practice, but I have basically zilch.
I know I'm probably being dramatic, but the more I think about it the more scared I get. I've never done anything like dental school before, and I don't have any real world experience with hard academics so I've got nothing to go on to measure if I can handle it or not.
Ramble ramble, what do you guys think?? I'm gonna grab a Newcastle and relax... I've never wanted something so bad and been so unsure if I could achieve it.
tl;dr 27, grades suck, waaaah, dunno if i can get into school, going to get drunk.
Let me just say that I really, really want to be a dentist. I've thought about it long and hard and I've made up my mind. It's the ideal lifestyle, with the opportunity to help others, have an active homelife, live comfortably, and contribute to public health. I want to do everything I can to become one.
I have a problem though. My GPA is atrocious (2.5). To make a long story short, I've apparently had ADHD my entire life (now 27) and didn't know it. This explains sooooooo many things. I'm a dizzying flurry of ups and downs, and I'm so academically inconsistent. I made a 36 on my ACT but an 1100 on my SAT, for example. Everyone has always told I was very smart but lacked focus. I never bought into the being smart part because my grades were always so terrible. In classes I enjoyed I'd make A's guaranteed... it was always a focus/interest/concentration thing, and if I liked the subject I'd ace it without trying. If I didn't like it or wasn't interested I was guaranteed to struggle, usually ending up with D's and F's. With such consistently poor performance over the years, I eventually convinced myself I was just lazy and incapable of ever amounting to anything. Enter closet depression.
One year ago, having gone almost a decade without graduating with my bachelor's, my fiance convinced me to go get tested for a learning disability. I went, and lo and behold I have hardcore ADHD. I got put on the strongest Adderall they make (30mg XR) and it was like a light switch turned on and everything went quiet in my head. No constant distractions when I try to think, no absent-mindedly putting off something I don't want to do because it isn't fun (such as studying), no inability to formulate and recite a cogent sentence without stumbling over my words because I keep wandering off... now I can actually look people in the eyes and talk to them without anxiously glancing away. I feel like a new man and I'm pissed I spent most of my 20's being a nothing, when had I known all along I had ADHD and medicated myself for it I could possibly be a dentist by now.
I swear it's like a magic pill. For the first time in my life I sat down and studied for something... a genetics exam... having been to class only once in 6 weeks. I made an A on it. Suddenly I'm filled with excitement and hope and so I start wondering if maybe I can turn my life around. Is it too late? Am I too old? I don't think I'm too old, but I'm not so sure about the other part.
My gpa is a sour 2.5. My academic record is riddled with F's, dropped courses, A's, and several D's. I've been in school since 2001 working on a psychology degree and I finally graduate this semester (thank you fiance for suggesting I get tested). Now that I know what I'm capable of, and that my crippling learning disability can be kept in check, I want to go pursue my dream to be a dentist. I've gathered that dental schools are every competitive though, and I'm not so sure I can get in. I'm not even sure how long it would take to fix a GPA like that.
I'm planning on retaking all my science courses over the next year, and I plan on getting A's in all of them. How high can 8+ A's bring up a 2.5 gpa? It's so easy for your GPA to plummet, but it seems likes it's 10x harder to push it back up. Am I going to have to practically ace the DAT to get in? Should I bother spending another year or two working on upping my grades in the hope I'll be accepted to dental school? I see the stats some you guys have, and the figures on how many people apply and get accepted (11k apply/4k accepted) and I get depressed. I don't want to waste my time if I can find some other way to support my family. When an admissions board sees my GPA, even with the string of A's towards the end, will it matter? I want to be competitive but I don't want to even get off the ground if it's a waste of time. I believe in pursuing your dreams at all costs, but we're thinking of having a baby soon and I'm still out of work... I can't afford to spend a year or two trying to get into dental school if I'll ultimately be unable to.
The other problem that I worry about is I have absolutely no study skills. I've never sat down for any length of time to really study... just a little here and there when I had to. However, I understand dental school is as hardcore as it gets and I'm not even sure I'll be able to handle it. Some of you guys have great study skills and lots of practice, but I have basically zilch.
I know I'm probably being dramatic, but the more I think about it the more scared I get. I've never done anything like dental school before, and I don't have any real world experience with hard academics so I've got nothing to go on to measure if I can handle it or not.
Ramble ramble, what do you guys think?? I'm gonna grab a Newcastle and relax... I've never wanted something so bad and been so unsure if I could achieve it.
tl;dr 27, grades suck, waaaah, dunno if i can get into school, going to get drunk.