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I apologize if this has been covered elsewhere but I never thought I'd find myself in this position and would like to take action soon out of respect for my fellow applicants and the schools where I applied. I received an offer of admission to a PhD program last week with less than stellar funding to work with a mentor that wasn't the best research fit. Today I received an offer of admission to my dream school with my dream mentor with good funding. Yay! But I applied to 15 schools, which means that I want to decline offer #1, decline 5 interview invites, and withdraw my application from the schools that haven't contacted me. My questions are:
-Who do I contact to withdraw an application-- the graduate school? The department secretary? My POI(s)?
-How do I decline the offer? I assume I should email the professor and explain that it's not a great research fit, but should I also contact the grad school or someone else?
-If I spoke with a professor over the phone or via email prior to an in-person interview invite, should I email them directly to tell them I won't be coming? I doubt they care too much but I feel a little bad because I acted super enthusiastic about their programs and some of them were very nice.
This is a theoretical question since I have no acceptances yet.
But when you turn down an offer/ interview, should you call them? or does it need to be in writing- in that case would email do?
Thx
I plan on emailing. I feel like I'm in a really awkward position right now because I won't have anything in writing until early next week and I've received 2 interview invitations since the offer from my dream school. I don't want to turn them down in case something horrific happens with the offer but I also don't want to confirm my attendance if I don't think I'll be traveling there.
I know I shouldn't be complaining about this but it's still stressful![]()
I just feel bad because I know that the administrative assistants and grad students spend so much time planning interview events and I'm going to be pulling out even though I confirmed stuff a week ago. I hope there won't be bad feelings when I surely bump into some of these profs at conferences. I'll say something like "I swear I was serious when I said I liked your research!!!" 🙂
BUT...you're right, I should be pumped. Gonna break open a bottle of wine tonight and go out to dinner!
I just feel bad because I know that the administrative assistants and grad students spend so much time planning interview events and I'm going to be pulling out even though I confirmed stuff a week ago. I hope there won't be bad feelings when I surely bump into some of these profs at conferences. I'll say something like "I swear I was serious when I said I liked your research!!!" 🙂
BUT...you're right, I should be pumped. Gonna break open a bottle of wine tonight and go out to dinner!
I just feel bad because I know that the administrative assistants and grad students spend so much time planning interview events and I'm going to be pulling out even though I confirmed stuff a week ago. I hope there won't be bad feelings when I surely bump into some of these profs at conferences. I'll say something like "I swear I was serious when I said I liked your research!!!" 🙂
BUT...you're right, I should be pumped. Gonna break open a bottle of wine tonight and go out to dinner!