I've been with my gf for over 5 years. We've been living together for over a year. She wants to stay with me when I go to med school but doesn't like where I've been accepted (although would probably want to come regardless). I don't want her to come with me for a number of reasons, but mostly because it will benefit both of us if she doesn't...but I haven't told her that yet.
Anyway, right now we split the costs of rent, cable, utilities, etc. If we split up before I left for school, I'd have to take care of costs on my own, which would not be impossible but would definitely be a burden on my financial situation. I like her company, but don't like being with her...if that makes any sense. I guess, the companionship is great, but sometimes (really more of the time lately) I just can't stand being around her. (We do enjoy each others company and sometimes we have a good time together, but most of the time I would rather be at school/work.) Is it wrong of me to keep her around for the next few months to lighten my financial load?
Anyway, right now we split the costs of rent, cable, utilities, etc. If we split up before I left for school, I'd have to take care of costs on my own, which would not be impossible but would definitely be a burden on my financial situation. I like her company, but don't like being with her...if that makes any sense. I guess, the companionship is great, but sometimes (really more of the time lately) I just can't stand being around her. (We do enjoy each others company and sometimes we have a good time together, but most of the time I would rather be at school/work.) Is it wrong of me to keep her around for the next few months to lighten my financial load?
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