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I've taken my partner to conferences because all my expenses were paid and we only had to cover their side of things, but I don't know how I'd feel about sharing a bed with my mother as an adult.....I would say the cost of attending an academic conference not on an employer’s dime is cost prohibitive to most (mothers or otherwise).
I’m just going to start my training in the fall, so I’m not in the world of academic psychology yet, but I think most in the genetics community at least would find it odd at worst, endearing it best.
Freud would have a field day...I've taken my partner to conferences because all my expenses were paid and we only had to cover their side of things, but I don't know how I'd feel about sharing a bed with my mother as an adult.....
Your mom sounds awesome.I've taken my mom to many conferences so that she can basically function as a PCA (I'm physically disabled, and hotels and airports are horrendously inaccessible), and she never does conference stuff, but has fun exploring the cities (we don't share a bed).
"The mother was the surgeon...."All the responses missed the most obvious question, is your mother a psychologist/ mental heath professional? I feel like I am solving one of those brain teasers everyone posts on FB.
Mine would do that and find some way to cook in the hotel room and give out food to conference attendees.If I took my Mom to a professional conference, she'd have seminal theorists' phone numbers, their life stories, and invitations from them to have future tea. And I'd totally flashback to adolescence, and be totally embarrassed.
And this stuff is why I hide my mom at conferences, to the point where she can "invisibly" open a door. The inaccessibility of travel does not make me a less competent psychologist,Absent a great reason, that’s a succinct way to demonstrate how a lack of individuation can compromise professional competence.
For real? You must have meant this sarcastically, right? If not, jeez!Absent a great reason, that’s a succinct way to demonstrate how a lack of individuation can compromise professional competence.
I think you are missing the "great reason" part. Needing help, needing childcare, using the conference for a vacation, the parent being in the profession, etc... those are among many of the great reasons to have a family member present.For real? You must have meant this sarcastically, right? If not, jeez!
And this stuff is why I hide my mom at conferences, to the point where she can "invisibly" open a door. The inaccessibility of travel does not make me a less competent psychologist,
Ehh... the way your post was written, including how you quoted a specific post from the other contributor, I think you missed the mark.I think you are missing the "great reason" part. Needing help, needing childcare, using the conference for a vacation, the parent being in the profession, etc... those are among many of the great reasons to have a family member present.
Without that type of rationale, why is someone bringing their parent to a professional activity?
Why would you hide anyone who helps with access? That has nothing to do with competence.
But what great networking!If I took my Mom to a professional conference, she'd have seminal theorists' phone numbers, their life stories, and invitations from them to have future tea. And I'd totally flashback to adolescence, and be totally embarrassed.
I hope y'all have an absolute ball of a time exploring a new place together! The idea of that warms my heart.Thank you all for your feedback! I am a busy student and my mom does not always have the means for vacation. I thought bringing her along when I'm already paying my way would be a nice way to expose her to the field and also get her out of my hometown. Thanks again, it's a pleasure to read your responses.
lol!! She'd get on well with my folks. I don't know you or your mom but I already know I'd love to sit down for a long chat over tea with herIf I took my Mom to a professional conference, she'd have seminal theorists' phone numbers, their life stories, and invitations from them to have future tea. And I'd totally flashback to adolescence, and be totally embarrassed.
She is the best at networking...growing up, she was a stay-home Mom, and our family's social circle was large and full of authentic relationships. I believe observing these behaviors has contributed to me being an introvert (who can play an extrovert on TV). @futureapppsy2, your Mom sounds like my kind of gal.But what great networking!
Awww. Ditto.❤️lol!! She'd get on well with my folks. I don't know you or your mom but I already know I'd love to sit down for a long chat over tea with her
Love this. Have fun! It will be so awesome, and your Mom will be beaming with pride (I just know it!).Thank you all for your feedback! I am a busy student and my mom does not always have the means for vacation. I thought bringing her along when I'm already paying my way would be a nice way to expose her to the field and also get her out of my hometown. Thanks again, it's a pleasure to read your responses.