moy_05 said:
I have noticed that most of the posters here have some specific ability or skill or aptitude that they can count on. I know a little about a lot but nothing really stands out, thus, this leads to a confusion on what career i want to be in. I am finding it hard to specify my strengths. Again, i know a liitle about a lot. Is dentistry for me?any suggestions?
Don't be discouraged because you are not completely sure what you want to do. Some people decide right away while some people find out later in life.
I decided to pursue dentistry only a couple of months ago. I know some people will give crap for that but I couldn't make up my mind before. In high school, I knew I wanted to be anesthesiologist and I'm sure almost everyone had something else in mind when they were younger. In college, I wanted to be everything. This includes being an architect, chemical engineer, airline pilot, graphic artist, anthropologist, and even a geologist. I have always been fascinated by science but I also had a creative side. I love photography and a photography professor used to encourage me to major in that after he saw my pictures.
Now, I am finishing up my Economics degree. I am an management intern in the Environmental Protection Agency in Washington, DC. I have met so many people and started networking with a number of professionals. If I wanted to pursue this career, I could easily find a decent-paying job right now. However, I know that a few years down the line, I will not be happy with my career. I realized that I really want to go into dentistry. I think its the perfect field for me because I will get to meet people, help them, and to some extent, use my creativity. I also get to use my business-skills. All the other things I wanted to do can be my hobbies.
So whats the lesson here? Just relax. Things will come to you. Take a variety of classes. You will find that you know more than the 'focused' students. The classes I took ranged from Accounting to Classical Chinese Philosophy. I did well in all these classes because I truly enjoyed. So don't limit yourself by just taking classes in one field. There so much out there to learn.
Maybe it will take you a few years to find yourself. But you have time. Don't stress it. I have been working full-time and going to school full-time since I got of high school. From that experience, I can tell you that you shouldn't be in rush to be in the 'real world.'