"URM" means underrepresented in medicine. It's a medical school admissions term that refers to an attempt to increase racial/ethnic diversity in medicine for the sake of the medical community, and for patients who may feel more comfortable with a doctor that is from their same race or culture.
"Disadvantaged" is also used in medical school admissions to mean socioeconomically disadvantaged, and you have been on some kind of welfare like free school lunches, food stamps, etc.
So there are really 3 goals that a school could be working towards:
1. More diversity, because diversity is good for the profession and the clients (or patients if you're in human med).
2. Recruitment of students who have suffered economic hardship and likely not had access to the same educational resources, have had to work during school, do not have family members that have been in college, etc.
3. Recruitment of students who are racial minorities, both as an acknowledgement of the effect systemic racism has likely had on their lives (and please don't act like this country is not racist), and also because being a racial minority is a correlate for the socioeconomic hardship.
I think you (abc) are conflating these goals. If a school wants to be more racially diverse for the sake of diversity, then of course they don't care whose parents had what job. If they are trying to account purely for economic disadvantage, they can ask about that on their supplemental.
And I think think it's pretty entitled to be a white person complaining about how it's unfair to be white. The point of the affirmative action system is to make things as fair as possible... level the playing field on a societal level. It doesn't mean there won't be the occasional individual situation that is "unfair." But honestly if you have enjoyed all the privilege that comes with being (take your pick... white, male, straight, cisgender, etc) and haven't managed to make yourself competitive, that's on you. And if you have truly faced disadvantages despite being a non-minority, there is plenty of space for you to talk about how you overcame that in your PS or explanation statement, and let an admissions committee take that into account.
FWIW I don't think that this is going to be a really effective or worthwhile conversation in vet med.
The applicant pool is just too narrow to really make much of a difference in the composition of any given class, so there is little sense in having the conversation right now. I am guessing that in human med there is a lot more room to address those issues.
I am more in the camp (which is certainly not precluding your view), that the goal is to
1) level the playing field earlier in the game
2) generate interest in vet med by underrepresented groups.
If we can accomplish those 2 things (admittedly difficult) then there would (ultimately)be much less of a need for the affirmative action debate.
Unfortunately neither of these things are close to being accomplished. ANd one without the other is pretty meaningless. No sense in building up dreams that are unrealistic in a system stacked against the disadvantaged... and no use in fixing the system, unless the kids realize they have a chance to move up in the world.
For point of reference, my first boss (who is now a trustee at Penn), set up the Say Yes to Education system, one of those programs that guaranteed inner city, poor, 5th graders (i think) to pay for a college or vocational education if they finished high school, but unlike some other programs that preceeded it (this was set up 25+ years ago), they provided support for the students with mentoring, tutoring from Penn students etc. Still only about 1/2 (slightly less if I recall) graduated high school. All the usual suspects... death, prison, pregnancy, giving up....
So it is more than just saying, lets give more money, or more support to these kids... We need that plus a constant push to change their outlook.
They still do the program and keep on tweaking it, but honestly college finances is not the barrier to these kids.. it starts much earlier.
Not sure how I got on this rant... Must really not want to study.
I am sure this is tl;dr. Sorry.