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Here's the deal:
I live in a city with a medical school in it. It's a state school that only accepts state residents or those with strong ties to the state who will become residents. I've lived in this state for 22 years and got my undergrad from this school (with decent grades). I'm committed to staying in the state for many years to come, so I think I'm a good candidate.
But the real problem is that I REALLY want to go to this school. Not just because it's close and I'm local and it won't put me insanely into debt, but because as a mother with a small child (and plan to have more), I NEED the support that is here. My parents live here, my in-laws live here, and we have an absolutely wonderful childcare provider that we hope to have for many years to come.
Basically, I think the ONLY way medical school and residency is do-able for me is if I stay here and attend this school. If I apply and get accepted somewhere else, we will have to uproot and settle in a foreign place with no family or support. I think I we would have a lot of trouble in this regard because my husband will get so burnt out from never having any help. Nevermind that from a financial perspective, he needs to keep working so having family and low-cost/free childcare is essential.
So, is it foolish to only apply to one school? Unfortunately, I've heard that the school here is notorious for rejecting on first attempts, though that won't really stop me from applying again. I'm already non-trad, waiting another couple of years won't hurt me. My concern, though, is that I will be seen as "not too serious" since the general advice for non-trads is to apply broadly.
Any thoughts?
I live in a city with a medical school in it. It's a state school that only accepts state residents or those with strong ties to the state who will become residents. I've lived in this state for 22 years and got my undergrad from this school (with decent grades). I'm committed to staying in the state for many years to come, so I think I'm a good candidate.
But the real problem is that I REALLY want to go to this school. Not just because it's close and I'm local and it won't put me insanely into debt, but because as a mother with a small child (and plan to have more), I NEED the support that is here. My parents live here, my in-laws live here, and we have an absolutely wonderful childcare provider that we hope to have for many years to come.
Basically, I think the ONLY way medical school and residency is do-able for me is if I stay here and attend this school. If I apply and get accepted somewhere else, we will have to uproot and settle in a foreign place with no family or support. I think I we would have a lot of trouble in this regard because my husband will get so burnt out from never having any help. Nevermind that from a financial perspective, he needs to keep working so having family and low-cost/free childcare is essential.
So, is it foolish to only apply to one school? Unfortunately, I've heard that the school here is notorious for rejecting on first attempts, though that won't really stop me from applying again. I'm already non-trad, waiting another couple of years won't hurt me. My concern, though, is that I will be seen as "not too serious" since the general advice for non-trads is to apply broadly.
Any thoughts?