JackADeli, I see you posting a lot in this forum without actually being in the military. Have you previously been in, or what's your association?
It's a open forum.... just as I am not a Family Practice physician and post there as well.
Per military, I have had numerous workings and/or associations with the military over numerous years (~2 decades). This has included colleagues in undergrad & med-school that were in military/under military contract, years of interactions (positive & negative) with recruiters at many levels and asking direct and detailed questions of the recruiters. It has included working side by side with colleagues during residency attached to the military from prior service, scholarships, etc.... It has included working with attendings that were in medical corps, getting deployed or returning from deployment, etc... It has been reviewing residency applications of new med-school grads and folks trying to get into civilian residency from any number of military circumstances past, present, future, etc....
No, I am not in the military. No, I am not an expert. No, I have not been deployed or experienced the special opportunities that come with those acts of service. I am very comfortable with folks responding and/or correcting with more current/accurate data when possible.
I encourage service at all levels... just so long as it is INFORMED. And, if choosing service, own YOUR choice to the fullest. As a physician, I don't think you need to be military or any other association, to be embarassed if not offended by educated folks (representing our profession) CHOOSING a path and then pleading how duped they were. Ask questions... There are too many resources as a I note above.... classmates, residents, attendings, veterans, etc, etc, etc.... Ask questions about future partners when entering practice, ask question about military when choosing a military practice/partnership...
Finally, I appreciate your question and find it completely, God forbid I use the term..."Fair". But, if one wants a purely military perspective and/or pure military forum... I think the individual services have such forums. the army has something called "AKO"....