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I'm a MS4 right now and I've been in a long distance relationship for quite some time. Unfortunately, my SO is unable to do any relocating because he still has a few more years of medical school left (across the country). It would be ideal if I could match into a residency program at his school. However, I've done an away rotation there and the program is eh. It's mediocre at best. I got the feeling that no one really cared too much about that department. There were a lot of FMGs and the few AMGs that were there kind of hinted to me that this particular program was not near the top of their match list. Meh. They don't like the city and they feel like the patient volume is low thus hindering their education.
I applied to other programs that are in the same state as my SO but they are still pretty far from his city. However, based on what I've read online and word of mouth, these programs are "better."
I got an interview at that program where my bf goes to school so I'm excited but I just wish that the residents there were happier and more satisfied. At the same time, I miss my boyfriend
Has anyone been in a similar situation? What would you pick? A mediocre residency program where a SO lives or a better program that's far from your SO?
I applied to other programs that are in the same state as my SO but they are still pretty far from his city. However, based on what I've read online and word of mouth, these programs are "better."
I got an interview at that program where my bf goes to school so I'm excited but I just wish that the residents there were happier and more satisfied. At the same time, I miss my boyfriend
Has anyone been in a similar situation? What would you pick? A mediocre residency program where a SO lives or a better program that's far from your SO?