Hi all I am new here and I am in desperate need of some advice.
So Im actually in my fourth year at community college (smh) and just finished my A.A. in Business. The reason it has taken me this long is because I didnt really know exactly what I wanted to do and I thought that business was probably the best all around degree. I also worked part-time/on-call during most of these four years; sometimes I had no work at all and sometimes up to 40 hours a week (average of 25-30, most ever was 60), because the pay was Great and I just couldnt refuse. I also moved out for a year and half and that definitely distracted me from my school work. Basically, I didnt know what I wanted and even though I knew I needed a degree, I was not even serious during school (I remember even going high and hung over in the first couple of years). I still ended up getting about a 2.8 gpa around this time.
I knew I loved school though and I was going to want more than a bachelors degree and that made start thinking that if Im going to do that much schooling, I might as well be a doctor. I found a girlfriend, stopped smoking and drinking, and moved back into my moms house. Now I want to major in Biochem Molecular Biology, and I have raised my GPA to 3.1. Now I need to do 2 more years at cc before I can transfer and but Im done with all my pre-reqs and Im starting my first year of Chem, Calc and Bio this semester. Its really hard for me to raise my GPA because I have 94 credits already but if I get straight As I can have just under a 3.3 by the end of this school year. I know its going to be hard but Ive never gave it my all in school and this past semester I tried the most I Ever have in school and I managed to pull of a 3.6 taking trig, business calc, managerial accounting and music; I still think I only gave about 80% effort.
So would really like to hear some advice. Counselors at my school are useless for advice and I cant even talk to my girlfriend about his because she doesnt want to hear anything about me moving. I really wanted to go to UCSD but that is now out of the question since they raised their TAG requirements to 3.5 this year. I can still TAG to UCSB, UCI or UCD with a min 3.2 by the end of this year, which I know I can achieve, and if dont, then I know Im just not cut out to be a doctor. I dont think its too early to be looking at schools and Im already stressing about where I want to go. So I have been doing a lot of research recently and Ive heard most of the pros and cons from each of these colleges.
UCSB:
Pros Good location, nice campus, good social environment, so cal, most diverse of the three
Cons Too much partying, no med school on campus (less opportunities for volunteer work?)
UCI
Pros - Good research opportunities, med school on campus, best for molecular biology?, I could Possibly commute or at least not have to move far away from San Diego.
Cons Older campus (I really dont care what the campus looks like though), less diverse
UCD:
Pros Best research of the three?, med school on campus, college town, good biology program
Cons Very far from home,
So would really like to hear some advice. Counselors at my school are useless for advice and I cant even talk to my girlfriend about his because she doesnt want to hear anything about me moving.
Ive read that prestige doesnt really matter, and they are all ranked about the same anyways. I dont care to party at all, Ive been partying since high school and thats why I am where I am now. I want to spend my most of time studying and making sure I get As so that by the time I am through I will have about a 3.5 gpa with a big upwards trend, which I think will get into a good med school, If I do well on the MCATs of course. I really want to focus on which school will best help me get into med school. Is there any advice anyone can give me? Is there anything I am missing? Has anyone gone/ is going through a similar decision? I think this is going to be one of the hardest decisions of my life, maybe until I have to decide which med school I go to. Anyways thanks for reading this super long post, I hope someone can guide me in the right direction.
So Im actually in my fourth year at community college (smh) and just finished my A.A. in Business. The reason it has taken me this long is because I didnt really know exactly what I wanted to do and I thought that business was probably the best all around degree. I also worked part-time/on-call during most of these four years; sometimes I had no work at all and sometimes up to 40 hours a week (average of 25-30, most ever was 60), because the pay was Great and I just couldnt refuse. I also moved out for a year and half and that definitely distracted me from my school work. Basically, I didnt know what I wanted and even though I knew I needed a degree, I was not even serious during school (I remember even going high and hung over in the first couple of years). I still ended up getting about a 2.8 gpa around this time.
I knew I loved school though and I was going to want more than a bachelors degree and that made start thinking that if Im going to do that much schooling, I might as well be a doctor. I found a girlfriend, stopped smoking and drinking, and moved back into my moms house. Now I want to major in Biochem Molecular Biology, and I have raised my GPA to 3.1. Now I need to do 2 more years at cc before I can transfer and but Im done with all my pre-reqs and Im starting my first year of Chem, Calc and Bio this semester. Its really hard for me to raise my GPA because I have 94 credits already but if I get straight As I can have just under a 3.3 by the end of this school year. I know its going to be hard but Ive never gave it my all in school and this past semester I tried the most I Ever have in school and I managed to pull of a 3.6 taking trig, business calc, managerial accounting and music; I still think I only gave about 80% effort.
So would really like to hear some advice. Counselors at my school are useless for advice and I cant even talk to my girlfriend about his because she doesnt want to hear anything about me moving. I really wanted to go to UCSD but that is now out of the question since they raised their TAG requirements to 3.5 this year. I can still TAG to UCSB, UCI or UCD with a min 3.2 by the end of this year, which I know I can achieve, and if dont, then I know Im just not cut out to be a doctor. I dont think its too early to be looking at schools and Im already stressing about where I want to go. So I have been doing a lot of research recently and Ive heard most of the pros and cons from each of these colleges.
UCSB:
Pros Good location, nice campus, good social environment, so cal, most diverse of the three
Cons Too much partying, no med school on campus (less opportunities for volunteer work?)
UCI
Pros - Good research opportunities, med school on campus, best for molecular biology?, I could Possibly commute or at least not have to move far away from San Diego.
Cons Older campus (I really dont care what the campus looks like though), less diverse
UCD:
Pros Best research of the three?, med school on campus, college town, good biology program
Cons Very far from home,
So would really like to hear some advice. Counselors at my school are useless for advice and I cant even talk to my girlfriend about his because she doesnt want to hear anything about me moving.
Ive read that prestige doesnt really matter, and they are all ranked about the same anyways. I dont care to party at all, Ive been partying since high school and thats why I am where I am now. I want to spend my most of time studying and making sure I get As so that by the time I am through I will have about a 3.5 gpa with a big upwards trend, which I think will get into a good med school, If I do well on the MCATs of course. I really want to focus on which school will best help me get into med school. Is there any advice anyone can give me? Is there anything I am missing? Has anyone gone/ is going through a similar decision? I think this is going to be one of the hardest decisions of my life, maybe until I have to decide which med school I go to. Anyways thanks for reading this super long post, I hope someone can guide me in the right direction.