I don't agree with this. Awake extubation the patient must be awake. What does awake mean? ding ding ding.. eyes open. Moreover, i dont think there is such a thing as waiting too long to pull the tube..
We can agree to disagree then.
I had a few attendings who believed as you do, that awake = wide awake, ready to do the NYT crossword puzzle. They required them to follow commands. "Can you give me a thumbs up?" Telling them to open their mouths so they can do another round of deep suction before extubation. I think that's rather unnecessary in 98% of cases.
Patients are often awake before their eyes are open. I mean, that's the normal way human beings wake up. When I woke up this morning, I was "awake" before I opened my eyes. Now, certainly, anesthesia with volatile agents is different, and it's not normal sleep. I didn't go through stage 2 before waking up this morning.
But usually there are clear, deliberate signs 15-30 seconds before they are "eyes wide open awake" and looking around the room, clearly wondering "why the hell is this tube in my mouth and who are all these people looking at me" and before the panic sets in. Some movements just don't come during or before they've passed through stage 2. Sometimes they're subtle. Facial expressions like grimacing, brow furrowing; head movement; some patterns of limb movement. The HR settling back down to 65 after a brief run to 95. A more regular and deep breathing pattern after a brief run of shallow tachypnea.
With practice and attention, you can pick up on the signs that a patient is "awake" and safe to extubate, before the eyes are open. If you do, you'll avoid a lot of the ugly coughing, head thrashing, clamping down on the bite block, etc.
If you don't want to do that, that's OK, there's nothing really wrong with waiting longer to pull the tube.
We're kind of digressing from the topic of this thread though, which is bucking on an endotracheal tube. That's a different issue, mostly unrelated to stage 2, emergence, and extubation criteria. Bucking is a bad balance between tracheal irritation and analgesics - not 100% avoidable, but there are definite uncontroversial mitigation strategies..