if it makes you feel better, I just spent a couple hours on google searching and doing some research on each person before I called. The first guy I called said he didn't do shadowing (the receptionist told me). But the second call did the trick (and he's an ophthalmologist)!!
Just keep calling; I think DO physicians know that we need LORs just like they did, so they empathize with us more lol.
For those who have shadowed, how many hours approximately did you do it before you asked for an LOR? Days? Weeks? Months? This guy seems really cool so I'll be shadowing him even after my LOR, but I don't want to be too late in application season either, lol.
Help me out brotha's!