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Basically the title. Admin tried to give me a pep talk where they called it a "setback," but I know I just slammed shut every door that I have worked myself into the ground for years to open. I am gutted beyond what I can put into words.
During my first clerkship, I got beautiful evals, aced the standardized patient exam, and was gearing up to take the shelf. Then a lot of **** happened. The highlights are a family member passed away AND the day before the test a doctor told me they thought I had skin cancer and sent a biopsy out for path lab. I didn't know I couldn't reschedule the test so I took it and missed the cutoff for pass by TWO points.
I get told I can remediate the exam in 6 months. Great. In the interim, I breeze through another notoriously difficult rotation and the corresponding shelf. Back to clerkship #1 shelf. I work my ass off, crush the practice NBMEs, then crash and burn on the actual exam again. I scored 1 point higher and missed the cutoff by a single point. This time, I have no idea how this happened. I know I was prepared.
Now, I'm told I'm getting an F on my transcript and have to repeat the entire rotation. Even if I pass, the F stays forever. I feel like I just burned down my entire professional future. The one person I've told keeps trying to reassure me that I "can still match somewhere." But they don't get it. They don't understand that my whole life I've worked myself into the ground for so so much more than that.
For the record, I'm not upset that I've hit a challenging spot, nor do I think the F means I'm not cut out to be a doctor or is a measure of my self worth. I have a long track record of meeting failure with grace and coming back stronger. I will gladly take this rotation 1000 times if thats what it takes. I'm crushed because no matter what I do from here, I feel this one stupid letter that does not reflect me as a person AT ALL is going to completely define my future and derail the life I have put my lifeblood into building. All the positive things I've done, the long nights and insane hours, all the potential I have as a person, instantly canceled out by this vapid letter.
I'm still in rotations and I don't know how I am supposed to navigate this and not continue to crash and burn. Apparently I now have to also write a letter to a probation committee arguing why I shouldn't be put on academic probation. I want to do the right thing: work my ass off and come back strong. But I can barely get out of bed. I feel like this is going to be a downward spiral I end up riding until I completely crash and burn out of medicine altogether. I feel like I have ruined my life.
During my first clerkship, I got beautiful evals, aced the standardized patient exam, and was gearing up to take the shelf. Then a lot of **** happened. The highlights are a family member passed away AND the day before the test a doctor told me they thought I had skin cancer and sent a biopsy out for path lab. I didn't know I couldn't reschedule the test so I took it and missed the cutoff for pass by TWO points.
I get told I can remediate the exam in 6 months. Great. In the interim, I breeze through another notoriously difficult rotation and the corresponding shelf. Back to clerkship #1 shelf. I work my ass off, crush the practice NBMEs, then crash and burn on the actual exam again. I scored 1 point higher and missed the cutoff by a single point. This time, I have no idea how this happened. I know I was prepared.
Now, I'm told I'm getting an F on my transcript and have to repeat the entire rotation. Even if I pass, the F stays forever. I feel like I just burned down my entire professional future. The one person I've told keeps trying to reassure me that I "can still match somewhere." But they don't get it. They don't understand that my whole life I've worked myself into the ground for so so much more than that.
For the record, I'm not upset that I've hit a challenging spot, nor do I think the F means I'm not cut out to be a doctor or is a measure of my self worth. I have a long track record of meeting failure with grace and coming back stronger. I will gladly take this rotation 1000 times if thats what it takes. I'm crushed because no matter what I do from here, I feel this one stupid letter that does not reflect me as a person AT ALL is going to completely define my future and derail the life I have put my lifeblood into building. All the positive things I've done, the long nights and insane hours, all the potential I have as a person, instantly canceled out by this vapid letter.
I'm still in rotations and I don't know how I am supposed to navigate this and not continue to crash and burn. Apparently I now have to also write a letter to a probation committee arguing why I shouldn't be put on academic probation. I want to do the right thing: work my ass off and come back strong. But I can barely get out of bed. I feel like this is going to be a downward spiral I end up riding until I completely crash and burn out of medicine altogether. I feel like I have ruined my life.