I have no idea where you got the impression that I'm a foreign grad, but I'm not. Not only did I attend a name brand American med school, I went there on full scholarship. This has to be the first time in the entire decade I've been on SDN that anyone has ever confused me for an IMG.
There's no need to be rude just because you don't agree with me. The OP asked for opinions, and I gave mine, which is that "Bob" blew it. First, he went through the match as a med school senior and failed to match anywhere. Maybe it's because he wasn't realistic about his chances in his preferred specialty, or maybe it's because he didn't plan well for a backup, or maybe it's because he blew his interviews, or failed Step 2, or whatever. Who knows. He then was offered an IM prelim slot that he turned down, and now that PD is through with him to the point that the PD told Bob to apply to another specialty altogether. I mean, seriously, ouch. If that isn't a blow to the old ego, I don't know what is.
-So basically you decided to judge someone when he's down? I see. Well I don't do that, I find that rather tacky. Sorry for actually having compassion. I guess not all of us are perfect like you. I guess some people have dreams and don't want the first time around into what they want, I guess not everyone can match into highly competitive specialties first time around. I did not realize that was so awful.
-A *prelim* IM spot is worthless, as there is no guarantee whatsoever of a second year spot. Again, you are putting someone down when he is already down. Rather tacky, once again, in my opinion.
And let's be honest: Bob *doesn't* want to be an internist. If he had, he wouldn't have applied for "a competitive surgical subspecialty." He would have applied for IM. The IM PD knows that Bob doesn't really want to be an internist. The OP knows this. You and I know this. Bob knows this. All of us also know that Bob doesn't really want to be a FP either. But, right now the FM PD doesn't know this. And if Bob is smart, the FM PD won't ever know this, because Bob will bust his a** on his FM rotations, impress the FM powers that be, and get good letters. Then Bob will get a FM residency slot somewhere and go on to become a BC FP some day.
-It doesn't matter what Bob wants to be. No one other than him can determine what he's willing to settle for. Who are you to decide? And again, suggesting that he could never get into an IM program because some lousy, egotistical PD told him to apply to a different specialty would forever mean he can't get into such said specialty is beyond absurd. It's mind-blowingly ridiculous.
Along those same lines, I'd argue that it's not any more insulting to say that Bob should apply in FM than it is to say that Bob should apply in IM. Because again, Bob could have been doing IM right now if he had really wanted to be doing IM. He was offered an IM spot, and he turned it down. Why did he turn it down? Because he doesn't want to do IM. Why then do you think it's insulting to FPs for the IM PD to say that Bob should have to apply to FM, but it's not insulting to internists for you to say that Bob should apply to IM because it's "a specialty that the vast majority of AMGs, even with some red flags, can easily match into," even though we all know that Bob preferred to risk going unmatched altogether over taking the IM prelim?
-It is insulting of course, because Bob actually considered applying for IM, so perhaps Bob realizes that in what he needs to settle for, IM may be something he can tolerate/settle for. You suggesting he do FM as his only last choice ever to have a medical career is because you are suggesting that FM is the least competitive specialty that he could get into, because he somehow did something terrible. I guess him making choices is somehow not allowed and terrible in medicine. Incredibly insulting to FM physicians.
I will reiterate in case it was somehow missed-taking a prelim IM spot is basically wasting a complete year of his life. It will provide him nearly 0 chance of moving on to PGY2, as programs have a close count of the # of spots that are available, and categorical PGY1s go onto PGY2, not prelims. Prelims are meant for other specialties.
So Bob is actually doing the best thing he can do for himself, which is waiting out a year and applying through the match again.
This outright mean, sadistic way that people on this forum have of attacking others and explaining how they must of have done something soooo awful that they should beg, and apologize, and be thankful if they can get into anything bla bla bla is just absolutely crazy and one of the many things that is wrong in medicine. This belief that abusive behavior is fine and the "let's kick them while they are down" mentality is just outright unacceptable in my opinion.
Makes sense to me. Tell him game face on.