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Doctoral training is extremely stressful and people tend to use more primitive defense mechanisms when under stress. I saw some pretty strange behavior during the pressure cooker of my own program. I made a conscious decision to stay away from certain individuals who were unraveling. Coming from a family role of peacemaker in a high conflict family, that was difficult for me to not get involved in others conflict, but I am so glad I recognized the dynamic and changed it. Whew! Part of being an effective psychologist is self-awareness and interpersonal skills. Start working on that and if you become stuck seek guidance from someone who has greater ability in the area that you are stuck. I also had a sticking point during internship. Both of these times became opportunities for personal and professional growth.
Oh and the buck up buttercup sentiment sounds familiar. That's a phrase my patients have been using lately to describe some of their difficulties with seeking support.
You would hope that people working in the mental health field would be a bit more well adjusted..but I guess the old saying may be true..that half of Psychologists get into the field because they are "crazy" themselves and the other half get in because they just want to help people.
I don't know that I agree you can apply the skills regardless of personality. I haven't seen that ring true in any field, from medicine to engineering to teaching and so on. Personality factors are huge in any field and ours is highly relational.A few things on this- firstly, graduate school is not "working in the mental health field"- it's training to work either in the mental health field or, the OPs program being a mentor model Ph.D. program, training to work in academia. As others have said, it's stressful, time consuming, high stakes, and often competitive- in ways very different than actual professional practice.
Secondly, psychotherapy is a set of techniques, practices, and customs that are practiced and learned. There may be personality styles and general demeanors MAY make it easier to learn and apply some of these things (it's an empirical question that perhaps has already been answered). However, one can successfully learn and apply these skills regardless of personality. One member of my cohort entered the program with the mistaken belief that everyone else was there because of their personal experiences with therapy and an inclination to not only further their self healing, but to continuously "act like a therapist" and discuss therapy related issues at all times. This will quickly get you not invited to the parties. During one of the first classes, when you do that thing where you all go around and say your reasons for wanting to be a psychologist, she was a bit taken aback when I said it was because "I have no other marketable skills."
As to the OPs predicament, I'd concur with erg. Changing the behaviors of others can be extremely difficult (that's why I get the big bucks!!), but changing your own behaviors might be a little easier. My here may be things you can change about yourself that might make it less likely that you might evoke or reinforce such behaviors in your cohort. Otherwise, look at things you can do to make it less likely you'd be in the presence of these folks when they display these behaviors. My guess is your mentor and/or the training director have dealt with such issues many times. If it's getting in the way of your training, approach them and ask for suggestions regarding how you could change your own behavior to make things less problematic for you. None of this is saying that things are your "fault," but rather that the best solutions are probably your responsibility.
I think this is a good point.Examples?
Are you positive you have no role on generating the responses and treatment you are getting?
No. You are completely misrepresenting what I meant. What I am trying to say is that we are all human and have interpersonal problems and lessons to learn about how we respond to stress. Learning about our strengths and weaknesses and learning more adaptive responses is part of what our training entails. I have many of the same communication difficulties and emotional responses to stressors as my patients, but usually to a lesser degree and I have a lot more skills and tools that I have learned to implement and I can help my patients learn some too. Psychologists get into the field because they find humans and the connection between behavior and thinking and feeling and the interpersonal and the biological to be compelling and fascinating and also have a desire to help improve others' functioning in this complex matrix.You would hope that people working in the mental health field would be a bit more well adjusted..but I guess the old saying may be true..that half of Psychologists get into the field because they are "crazy" themselves and the other half get in because they just want to help people.
No. You are completely misrepresenting what I meant. What I am trying to say is that we are all human and have interpersonal problems and lessons to learn about how we respond to stress. Learning about our strengths and weaknesses and learning more adaptive responses is part of what our training entails. I have many of the same communication difficulties and emotional responses to stressors as my patients, but usually to a lesser degree and I have a lot more skills and tools that I have learned to implement and I can help my patients learn some too. Psychologists get into the field because they find humans and the connection between behavior and thinking and feeling and the interpersonal and the biological to be compelling and fascinating and also have a desire to help improve others' functioning in this complex matrix.
half of Psychologists get into the field because they are "crazy" themselves and the other half get in because they just want to help people.
It's not. That's not even close. Please do not perpetuate that garbage.You would hope that people working in the mental health field would be a bit more well adjusted..but I guess the old saying may be true..that half of Psychologists get into the field because they are "crazy" themselves and the other half get in because they just want to help people.
It's not. That's not even close. Please do not perpetuate that garbage.
Someone with significant psychiatric illness will have a very difficult time completing training. Sure, it happens....but it isn't common. As for wanting to help people...honestly many of those people who come into the application cycle naive about the training and every day practice, so they aren't strong candidates. I'm not saying "helping people" isn't an aspect of the motivation for many, but the applicants that make it better u stand the field is much more than that. There are of course programs that will offer a spot for a check and a pulse....but that isn't the field as a whole.
When people say "crazy" I think they mean really broadly..meaning people that have/had issues with anxiety disorders, mood disorders, BPD, etc.
I just don't think this is a "wild" theory, or a bad saying. I mean people enter work they find interesting..people find things that are relevant to them quite interesting.
Whether something is relevant and/or interesting to someone doesn't mean it is personally applicable to them. Cancer researchers don't only go into the field because they have cancer. Maybe they know someone who has the type of cancer they are studying, but that is a reach to presume that there is a higher prevalence rate of psychology students going into the field w one or more pre-existing psychiatric a dxs. It is also against the prevailing research about psychiatric conditions, employment, and educational attainment.
First off, you are taking this way too seriously. It's just a saying I've heard before, and thought it was relevant to throw into this thread. Thought it might get a laugh. That is all.
Nowhere did I say that "I have the hard data to prove that half of Psychologists are mental cases", or am I making that case. I'm just saying I wouldn't be shocked if it was actually more common than other professions. I claimed that personal experience with mental health, directly or indirectly, makes someone more curious/interested in a profession. We can debate how true that is.
But I'll repeat, the candidate who gets into a competitive Phd program is not that representative of the average person with a mental disorder...so to argue that people with mental disorders are under-employed and have low educational attainment is irrelevant here. I have social anxiety and panic disorder and I'm finishing up my third undergrad and have great grades. I understand, it's an n=1, but I have a friend who was diagnosed with BPD and he finished a Phd at a great school few years back. In my own experience of getting mental health I had a lady psychiatrist who seemed like the sweetest person on the outside, but at one point showed really bad mood swings and anger when I had asked her if she was willing to sign a document I needed for school. It was beyond odd. There are other personal experiences. Again, I understand, anecdotal.
The IRR of BPD is terrible.
I also hate filling hate filling out forms (disability, fmla, disability, accommodations, etc.), and probably get a little testy about that. Not really how i like to spend my time, and not why I got into this line of work.
Don't you do disability evaluations?
Yea. File review And I bill for it.
So why are you annoyed doing something that is your job? Why get into it if you hate it?
This is a forum for students who are interested in becoming a psychologist. Misinformation about the field should be challenged. That ridiculous urban legend or whatever you want to call it is demeaning to the field and to our patients and demonstrates real ignorance of what mental illness really is so no, I don't think T4c was taking it too seriously. Also to say this in the context of the op's difficulties without any experience in a doctoral program yourself is not helpful either.First off, you are taking this way too seriously. It's just a saying I've heard before, and thought it was relevant to throw into this thread. Thought it might get a laugh. That is all.
Nowhere did I say that "I have the hard data to prove that half of Psychologists are mental cases", or am I making that case. I'm just saying I wouldn't be shocked if it was actually more common than other professions. I claimed that personal experience with mental health, directly or indirectly, makes someone more curious/interested in a profession. We can debate how true that is.
But I'll repeat, the candidate who gets into a competitive Phd program is not that representative of the average person with a mental disorder...so to argue that people with mental disorders are under-employed and have low educational attainment is irrelevant here. I have social anxiety and panic disorder and I'm finishing up my third undergrad and have great grades. I understand, it's an n=1, but I have a friend who was diagnosed with BPD and he finished a Phd at a great school few years back. In my own experience of getting mental health I had a lady psychiatrist who seemed like the sweetest person on the outside, but at one point showed really bad mood swings and anger when I had asked her if she was willing to sign a document I needed for school. It was beyond odd. There are other personal experiences. Again, I understand, anecdotal.
This is a forum for students who are interested in becoming a psychologist. Misinformation about the field should be challenged. That ridiculous urban legend or whatever you want to call it is demeaning to the field and to our patients and demonstrates real ignorance of what mental illness really is so no, I don't think T4c was taking it too seriously. Also to say this in the context of the op's difficulties without any experience in a doctoral program yourself is not helpful either.
You can be fairly functional, at least in some areas, and still have fairly serious issues. You are being demeaning by suggesting that someone only has an issue if they are unemployed and have low educational attainment.
Second, I don't think there is anything wrong with suggesting that a lot of Psychologists have mental health issues themselves. Again, not claiming that as a fact..just referring to the saying. There is nothing wrong with having a mental illness. You are making it seem like it's an insult.
It is an insult, because the implied message is the motivation for serving others is actually to serve our own needs, right?
Genuineness is highly important within the therapeutic relationship, and think perpetuating such nonsense casts doubt on the genuineness of practitioners. This is insulting to us (since no evidence exists to support your assertion) and likely troubling to potential patients.
The problem is that your opinion that psychology is inhabited by folks with higher than base rates of mental illness is unfounded. You can rationalize it, but at the end of the day you are making a claim that has no basis and that is insulting. Add to that, your comment wasn't just about base rates. You questioned the motivation of half of the field. That's insulting.Honestly, I didn't even see it from that perspective. Not at all. In fact, I'd like to think that my own struggle with mental illness has made me more empathetic and just given me a lesson on how horrible mental illness can be. So, when I say "people often enter professions they have some personal experience with"..all I mean is that. And it goes without saying that it makes logical sense that it would be MORE REWARDING to successfully treat patients when you've gone through similar issues and understand how horrible mental illness is. I don't think I'm giving you an insight you don't understand..folks go into professions that they feel are rewarding.
I don't think any of that is insulting or bad.
The problem is that your opinion that psychology is inhabited by folks with higher than base rates of mental illness is unfounded. You can rationalize it, but at the end of the day you are making a claim that has no basis and that is insulting. Add to that, your comment wasn't just about base rates. You questioned the motivation of half of the field. That's insulting.
Do you have any citations to back up your assertion? I found a few papers from about a decade ago, with a few minutes of searching, that say the opposite.Please send your hate mail to Dr. Robert Epstein Phd (Harvard University). This buffoon is spreading lies and suggesting that Psychologists might be crazy. It's so insulting to the field. (sarcasm..before some of you get triggered)
Do you have any citations to back up your assertion? I found a few papers from about a decade ago, with a few minutes of searching, that say the opposite.
It seems pretty obviously to be a fallacy to me. We are particularly struck by the small number of folks who actually do do this (heck, even Meehl said he suspected many child psychologists of secretly hating their own parents ), we have an unrealistic expectation that psychologists are supposed to be psychologically super healthy so any deviations are exaggerated, etc.
That fallacy would be "appeal to authority."I don't have any citations, and I never claimed I had any. The point I was making with that article is..here is a Harvard educated Psychologist, who doesn't have those citations either (and he admits as much in his article), but throws out the same exact theory, makes the same arguments I made, and says that by talking to many mental health professionals..they have the same perception.
I've taken philosophy 101 as well. I'm not making the argument "this guy is an authority..he has the same opinion..therefore, I'm right". This is not a case of being right or wrong. I have no clue if the assertion I've made is true, and I've never claimed I have the data to prove that it is.That fallacy would be "appeal to authority."
I didn't say it was an insult, what I said was that the belief that a large portion of clinicians go into the field bc "they are crazy" was factually inaccurate and not supported by actual data. I also called the 'saying' garbage and I objected to the perpetuation of it.Second, I don't think there is anything wrong with suggesting that a lot of Psychologists have mental health issues themselves. Again, not claiming that as a fact..just referring to the saying. There is nothing wrong with having a mental illness. You are making it seem like it's an insult.
Surely, there are individuals that enter the field of psychology partially in a hunt for psychological health
Just to re-iterate again..this didn't even pop into my mind. My argument is totally related to what you said at the beginning of your post.
What I found problematic was the pathologizing of normative human difficulties under stress. A few of the people in my cohort would deny experiencing depressed mood or anxiety because they defined these constructs as something that people with mental illness experience. I didn't suggest that people with mental illness have low acheivement at all. What I am saying is thwt all people have psychological problems because no one is perfect, but to call that mental illness is problematic. Psychologists are supposed to be more attuned to their emotional, cognitive, and interpersonal difficulties because that is part of our skill set.You can be fairly functional, at least in some areas, and still have fairly serious issues. You are being demeaning by suggesting that someone only has an issue if they are unemployed and have low educational attainment.
Second, I don't think there is anything wrong with suggesting that a lot of Psychologists have mental health issues themselves. Again, not claiming that as a fact..just referring to the saying. There is nothing wrong with having a mental illness. You are making it seem like it's an insult.
Thats also insulting and antagonistic. The point I was making was that what you presumed was secondary to what others perceived. Correcting for it later doesn't change the initial reaction folks clearly had to your initial comments. You seem to have a tendency to say things very quickly about psychologists/the field without thinking through how people might take them, or what those quick statements might actually mean. This pattern might be worth some consideration.I've made numerous points clarifying what I meant. You can accept that clarification, or you can continue crying about it.
You seem to have a tendency to say things very quickly about psychologists/the field without thinking through how people might take them, or what those quick statements might actually mean. This pattern might be worth some consideration.
As I said, you may want to spend some more time doing some self-reflection about how you come across instead of blaming me for drawing conclusions too quickly based on your comments. There appears to be a pattern of you offending people/making people reactive to comments that you make about the profession. As for my "drawing the conclusion too quickly" as the problem: Your "joke" didn't come across that way to me when you said it, or in the first few responses. Comments like, "[that half of the field is composed of psychologists who entered the field due to their own mental health] wasn't a wild theory", make it harder for me to assume you are joking. You even offered as evidence your n=1 example to justify your position. There appeared a fair amount of evidence to suggest it wasn't a joke until the later half of the thread when that became your claim.People have different interpretations..that is what clarification is for. It's also important on your end to not draw conclusions so quickly about what someone says. Ie (you took something that i largely meant as a joke as a very serious statement, you concluded that I was suggesting people go into the profession for the wrong reason, you concluded it was an attempt at an insult) None of those things are/were true.
People have different interpretations..that is what clarification is for. It's also important on your end to not draw conclusions so quickly about what someone says. Ie (you took something that i largely meant as a joke as a very serious statement, you concluded that I was suggesting people go into the profession for the wrong reason, you concluded it was an attempt at an insult) None of those things are/were true.
you were wrong and moving on
It was an overgeneralization to say that half of psychologists entered the field due to current psychological problems. I don't see why contradicting that should be construed as "squash[ing] differing opinion." Rather, it's simply challenging an exaggeration.You guys are using your authority to squash differing opinion, and you're expecting a higher standard than you ask of yourself. I won't disagree that I can be combative, but beyond that, I think you guys should do some self reflection. If the statement I made came out of anybody else's mouth (a long time poster, a Psychologist), it would not receive the same reaction.
Ardor, post: 17718806, member: 747963"]It was an overgeneralization to say that half of psychologists have a history of psychological issues/current problems. I don't see why contradicting that should be construed as "squash[ing] differing opinion." Rather, it's simply challenging a gross exaggeration.
Such is the case with all research on stigmatized topics. It's a real pain because no one wants to admit to having what they perceive as faults. That doesn't mean it isn't possible to do research, it just means you have to design good experiments. Social psychology is really the historic master of coming up with techniques to get access to information that people wouldn't want to admit (although some of that is a bit showboating for fun now I think as part of "professional expectation").What is interesting to me is that this again keeps going back to a validity issues of some of the research you guys do. I was going to say "I'd love to do research on this", and then I realize that most mental health professionals would not be honest about having a mental illness.
This is where I get confused, now you weren't joking about your estimations
It's a saying. It's a saying for a reason. It's a saying because the perception is there that it is true. It's not a perception from the general public, it's a perception from people WITHIN the field. It's a perception that has existed for as long as the profession. Again, no data, but my personal experience certainly lines up with it.
But I totally disagree with the assertion that making the statement is dangerous or insulting.
but it applies to groups of people that have told you that it doesn't apply and your assumption is incorrect