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*Not sure if sarcasm or not, but appreciate it either way*You just blew my mind
*Not sure if sarcasm or not, but appreciate it either way*You just blew my mind
*Not sure if sarcasm or not, but appreciate it either way*
This thread is talking about how poor doctors are paid relatively, to a bunch of premeds who would do this for free..
If we as a pro-choice society have decided that the decision to have a child is fully on the woman to have or rid herself of, then shouldn’t the ‘burden of birth control’ fall on the one who has the ultimate decision in pregnancy or not?
You just blew my mind
If the father didn’t want the child then Yes, In a hypothetical world where we had a proper social safety net that ensuring clothing, food, housing, school supplies, and health coverage for everyone under the age of 18 (honestly should just be everyone, but let’s go with the “everyone agrees on no starving kids” for now). It the reality of suck we live in, child support is a necessary-if-imperfect system.should the burden of child support fall on the mother?
He isn’t really punishing her. If she has the right to control her body and wants the resulting child, the man is under no obligation to care for it if he doesn’t want it. Two people had to participate to make the thing, and both parties can take precautions to avoid the pregnancy, so both parties SHOULD contribute to the child if they keep it (assuming that is by choice as opposed to inaccessibility of services). However, what should be done and what people are actually obliged to do are different things.punishing her for going through with the pregnancy?
If the father didn’t want the child then Yes, In a hypothetical world where we had a proper social safety net that ensuring clothing, food, housing, school supplies, and health coverage for everyone under the age of 18 (honestly should just be everyone, but let’s go with the “everyone agrees on no starving kids” for now). It the reality of suck we live in, child support is a necessary-if-imperfect system.
He isn’t really punishing her. If she has the right to control her body and wants the resulting child, the man is under no obligation to care for it if he doesn’t want it. Two people had to participate to make the thing, and both parties can take precautions to avoid the pregnancy, so both parties SHOULD contribute to the child if they keep it (assuming that is by choice as opposed to inaccessibility of services). However, what should be done and what people are actually obliged to do are different things.
I came to the realization that doctors are filthy rich when I noticed that working part time would make a physician more money than the average American working full time.Are You Rich? This Income-Rank Quiz Might Change How You See Yourself (Published 2019)
Five questions to help you compare yourself with your neighbors. (For Americans only.)www.nytimes.com
Go there and put in the “plithy” salary of even a resident in there and realize how well they do relative to everyone else, even in big cities. Not saying the money isn’t well earned, but maybe it will just give some of you all some perspective on how “others” are doing.
want to be a part of the child's life and pay child support?
By that extension..... should the burden of child support fall on the mother?
Should maternal rights supersede paternal rights in any and all circumstances?
And is the decision really fully on the woman? If the man in a heterosexual couple doesn't want children but the woman ends up getting pregnant and wants to keep it, and the man gives her a choice to pick between him or the baby, is the decision truly hers since he is essentially punishing her for going through with the pregnancy? I would argue that if he doesn't want to have children, then he should be the one undergoing male birth control (in a perfect world where such a method would exist).
Should a mother then have the full right to tell the father that he cannot be a part of the child's life, even if he does want to be a part of the child's life and pay child support?
So to summarize, you are saying that a man can say: "I want to have sex with you but in no way are you allowed to have children. If you do end up getting pregnant, then you either have to suffer the emotional trauma of either an abortion or a divorce. Oh, and btw, it's totally up to you to go through the trouble of birth control and I won't do anything besides wearing a condom and pulling out."
Are You Rich? This Income-Rank Quiz Might Change How You See Yourself (Published 2019)
Five questions to help you compare yourself with your neighbors. (For Americans only.)www.nytimes.com
Go there and put in the “plithy” salary of even a resident in there and realize how well they do relative to everyone else, even in big cities. Not saying the money isn’t well earned, but maybe it will just give some of you all some perspective on how “others” are doing.
Don't forget the massive loans, work hours, level of responsibility, opportunity cost of not working for 8 years...
Throughout my career, the wealthiest doctors I have met *all* have multiple side hustles. The difference is, these guys had hundreds of thousands of play money in their 30s to invest early.
I'm talking about restaurants, breweries, being a landlord, all kinds of diverse revenue streams are opened up when you have seed money early on.
(I'm told that if you're young and somebody is willing to give you a small loan of a million dollars, you can even become a billionaire and then the most powerful man in the world, but I digress)
*taking notes*Haha, love that last line. But yeah, smart investments and making your money work for you is how you get rich. The people just putting their 6-figure checks into their bank accounts are doing it wrong.
Haha, love that last line. But yeah, smart investments and making your money work for you is how you get rich. The people just putting their 6-figure checks into their bank accounts are doing it wrong.
I was going to say exactly this. My college bf's family was from a loaded part of SoCal and it was neighborhoods lined with pro athletes, rappers, CEOs, and doctors/dentists living side by side. Plenty of these doctors weren't from already-wealthy families either. It's about what they do with their already-high incomes
edit: Someone mentioned PCPs. It's harder for them but still about what they do with it. I know psychiatrists and even a veterinarian in these types of neighborhoods. Sure, they're outnumbered by orthos and other high-paying specialties, but again, it's about what they do with it
You're completely right; this is important too. We have a very close family friend in a primary care specialty with a porsche, a massive home, and a ton of mortgage w/ no savings. An img with Harvard residency who would essentially go bankrupt if he missed a paycheck. However, I don't think you can pull the faking it thing off in those super expensive neighborhoods with the athletes & rappers and they are reasonably indicative of wealth.
All that being said, people may be happy with their choices and it isn't really for me to judge. Personally, I would prefer a reasonably nice home that is paid off, a nice enough not-an-old-corolla-but-not-a-supercar either vehicle, and enough to just have security in life. It's about balance imo
Yep, nothing you can learn from full fledged physicians. You know everything.Whenever people include college time into the time it takes to go into medicine I just roll my eyes. College is a “sunk cost” anyway since you were going to go to college regardless of what one decided to do with their life. And yes, even with the opportunity cost, loans, etc, it still has the best ROI of any career.
Yes my college friend works forty hours a week. Minimal responsibility. Will get a pension soon. I'm ten years behind her, won't get a pension, stressed out over things I can't control, like my patients behavior outside my office, full of gray hair, and have 100 g of loans still left from med schoolYou're completely right; this is important too. We have a very close family friend in a primary care specialty with a porsche, a massive home, and a ton of mortgage w/ no savings. An img with Harvard residency who would essentially go bankrupt if he missed a paycheck. However, I don't think you can pull the faking it thing off in those super expensive neighborhoods with the athletes & rappers and they are reasonably indicative of wealth.
All that being said, people may be happy with their choices and it isn't really for me to judge. Personally, I would prefer a reasonably nice home that is paid off, a nice enough not-an-old-corolla-but-not-a-supercar either vehicle, and enough to just have security in life. It's about balance imo
Yep, nothing you can learn from full fledged physicians. You know everything.
Nobody is doubting that residents make a decent salary but per hour your less than mcdonaldsAre You Rich? This Income-Rank Quiz Might Change How You See Yourself (Published 2019)
Five questions to help you compare yourself with your neighbors. (For Americans only.)www.nytimes.com
Go there and put in the “plithy” salary of even a resident in there and realize how well they do relative to everyone else, even in big cities. Not saying the money isn’t well earned, but maybe it will just give some of you all some perspective on how “others” are doing.
IronicYep, nothing you can learn from full fledged physicians. You know everything.
Yes my college friend works forty hours a week. Minimal responsibility. Will get a pension soon. I'm ten years behind her, won't get a pension, stressed out over things I can't control, like my patients behavior outside my office, full of gray hair, and have 100 g of loans still left from med school
It's not just the path. The responsibility is crushing.I’m curious, if you weren’t a physician, what would you do instead? What would you recommend people do? No one is saying the path isn’t arduous and painful.
I'm not saying I want more money. Or want to be an investment banker. Please post here after ten years of practiceIronic
I have two good friends who are making over 400k. They have been since their early twenties and will out-earn me in the long run for sure.
I know about 20 to 40 times that who are making sub 80k a year and likely will until they retire. People love to assume that if you are smart enough to become a doctor you could be an I banker in NYC. I sincerely doubt that. Not discounting the intelligence required to be a doctor but the application of intelligence is not uniform throughout all fields. Look at the social skills of this forum and many in medicine, these are not aggressive social networkers. My sister works in mortgages and does a large number of loans for physicians, so she sees their debt and finances consistently. She and others in the industry, have told me they are no longer surprised how bad doctors are with money. Granted as a whole, people are bad with money but she expected physicians to as a whole be better due to the implied intelligence but that is not directly correlated to financial smarts.
This argument basically requires the assumption you're going to do incredibly well right after undergraduate and avoid the inherent instability the rest of the workforce experiences. I'm not sure if it is an ego thing due to the selection to become a doctor or used to justify the complaints but it is a sketchy justification at best. There is another post talking about physician salaries compared to graduating from a top law school and entering into a prestigious law firm so it seem to be a common thought. If people want to assume that they could walk into an investment firm and pull 200k at 23 they should also be able to see the almost invaluable return on the stability that being a doctor provides. It is safe. If I didn't care at all about the mission of physicians and only about money I still would likely choose medicine because I know with incredibly high certainty that I will not worry about money. Show someone an investment that has that consistently high of a return and you'll have to climb over the droves of investment bankers trying to claw at it.
Complaining about the quality of life is totally fair. Complaining about the salary is what causes a lot of the negative views towards physicians.
It's not just the path. The responsibility is crushing.
Please post on here after ten years of practice
Did I ever say underpaid?No one is doubting that the job doesn’t have a lot of responsibility attached to it. That being said, there’s a lot of well-paying jobs with a lot of responsibility attached to it. You can always appeal to rank and seniority, and I’m not saying that you’re incorrect, just that people don’t want to hear how “underpaid” physicians are.
I'm not saying I want more money. Or want to be an investment banker. Please post here after ten years of practice
I'm ten years behind her, won't get a pension.
and have 100 g of loans still left from med school
Please post on here after ten years of practice
The stresses of combat =\= the stresses of being a physician.years down the road whether a fellow soldier you provided treatment to would sue you after you worked day in and day out to give the the best possible care.
@FISTMCLARGEHUGE Physicians are systematically undervalued in the U.S. healthcare system and the stress that comes with that responsibility continually goes unacknowledged by most people to the point where people are always questioning whether their physician is actually doing a good job. Thank you for your service as a medic within a warzone. However, I am curious as a medic if you have to worry several years down the road whether a fellow soldier you provided treatment to would sue you after you worked day in and day out to give the the best possible care. I am also curious as a medic whether you have a low, but chronic fear that the license you have is tenuous, up for question, all your treatments placed under scrutiny, and that you can be completely stripped of everything that you worked towards for 7+ years and X amount of debt due to a single case that can linger on for years within a civil court system.
I'm not saying I want more money. Or want to be an investment banker. Please post here after ten years of practice
I want to make sure they know what they are getting into. It's not just about money. And nowadays, it's hard to get residency.We're in a pre-medical student forum. You're suggesting that pre-medical students should wait to post here until they've been in practice for 10 years?
@FISTMCLARGEHUGE Physicians are systematically undervalued in the U.S. healthcare system and the stress that comes with that responsibility continually goes unacknowledged by most people to the point where people are always questioning whether their physician is actually doing a good job. Thank you for your service as a medic within a warzone. However, I am curious as a medic if you have to worry several years down the road whether a fellow soldier you provided treatment to would sue you after you worked day in and day out to give the the best possible care. I am also curious as a medic whether you have a low, but chronic fear that the license you have is tenuous, up for question, all your treatments placed under scrutiny, and that you can be completely stripped of everything that you worked towards for 7+ years and X amount of debt due to a single case that can linger on for years within a civil court system.
Wrong. None of the plans out there call for that. Too many lawyers in USPart of the stress about that is the fact that medicine is privatized. If universal healthcare was a thing in this country, you wouldn’t have to worry about patients suing you, or crushing debt. That being said, you also wouldn’t have the really high specialty salaries that we have now.
Wrong. None of the plans out there call for that. Too many lawyers in US
The doctors still have repercussionsIt’s why doctors that work at the VA don’t get sued. Suing them means suing the US government. In other countries that’s how the law works. Maybe the lawyers will go after the hospital and/or the state, but the physician is not the target anymore.
So you are defending a psychiatrist that overly prescribed opioids to the point that he was known as “Candy Man”? VA or private practice, pretty sure this guy deserved retiribution.The doctors still have repercussions
'Candy Man' of Tomah VA agrees to surrender medical license
A former Tomah Veterans Administration Medical Center doctor accused of overprescribing opioids has agreed to surrender his medical license, documents released Wednesday show.www.google.com
Yes. The point is there's still consequences.So you are defending a psychiatrist that overly prescribed opioids to the point that he was known as “Candy Man”? VA or private practice, pretty sure this guy deserved retiribution.
I don't think anyone is arguing that there won't be consequences for overtly breaking the rules and true illegal activity. Under a socialized medicine system, however, a physician would not necessarily have to worry about being sued by a family that thinks the doctor did the wrong thing even though they did the right thing.Yes. The point is there's still consequences.
Also per Op, cant compare residency salary to regular jobs as residents work 60 to 80 hours a week
Can confirm - my first civilian job I made about $58K in six months before quitting because it was 5 10s with on call every other night. **** sucks, it isn't just residents who go through that.Many people making 50-60k are working 50 to 60 hour weeks