Yeah, like @
Cmdr_Shepard explained above, knowing the molecular geometry and shapes are essential to answering those polarity questions -- or even for those boiling point, melting point comparison questions -- which is related back to the same concept.
Most of the time however, questions typically involve the most frequent shapes: trigonal planar, linear, bent, tetrahedral, trigonal pyramidal, etc. but you do occasionally get the oddball question asking you to compare the polarity of less frequent molecular shapes (typically in physical sciences section). Usually the examples they provide are fairly obvious.
One other then to note is that Boron BF3 does not have a lone pair (it's one of the odd exceptions to octet), and so its molecular geometry is trigonal planar. In this case, the fluorine atoms are 120 degrees apart and all pulling with equal magnitude in 3 different directions. Because there is no net pull in any particular direction, BF3 is nonpolar. If however, you incorrectly assumed there was a lone pair present in BF3, then you might assume it occupies a tetrahedral geometry, in which case there would indeed be a net force in one direction. So knowing how many bonds and lone pairs an atom has is also important, but this is essentially related back to the basics of molecular geometry.
Hope this helps.