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You know the type...
Crosses boundaries personally and professionally, power-abusing, tries to make your internship experience miserable in the name of 'professional growth', asks for your ideas/opinions just so they can put them down, acts jealous of you (yet seems to want your approval), and clearly does not respect you or their clients. (as a side thought, how do people like this even make it into the field?)
I don't know what the typical supervision experience is like, but I am sure I'm not alone on this one. I have had 4 clinical supervisors: 1 good, 1 excellent, 2 very nasty. It seems like they have all the social power (especially if popular in the office) and can rally others around them on their side pretty quick, disarming/preventing you from getting any ally's should you choose to later raise concern about the supervisory relationship. As another side thought, I've noticed that of the 2 nasty supervisors I had, they were both female and I was their only male intern (or only male in the department, period). I don't think it's purely a matter of sex, but I absolutely believe that (coupled with some other minority identifiers I have) has something to do with it. You can just feel it.
What do you all do in these situations? I have learned my lesson from not doing anything in the past, and this time I am documenting everything. I can't stand spending time keeping a journal of this stuff, but I don't know what else I could do to stop the behavior. Unfortunately, using immediacy (self-disclosure) does not work when your boss lacks empathy.
I'm all about working hard and experiencing the growing pains that come with development within the field, but I do not believe that hazing should be permitted under any circumstances. It's discouraging to see in this field, let alone experience.
Crosses boundaries personally and professionally, power-abusing, tries to make your internship experience miserable in the name of 'professional growth', asks for your ideas/opinions just so they can put them down, acts jealous of you (yet seems to want your approval), and clearly does not respect you or their clients. (as a side thought, how do people like this even make it into the field?)
I don't know what the typical supervision experience is like, but I am sure I'm not alone on this one. I have had 4 clinical supervisors: 1 good, 1 excellent, 2 very nasty. It seems like they have all the social power (especially if popular in the office) and can rally others around them on their side pretty quick, disarming/preventing you from getting any ally's should you choose to later raise concern about the supervisory relationship. As another side thought, I've noticed that of the 2 nasty supervisors I had, they were both female and I was their only male intern (or only male in the department, period). I don't think it's purely a matter of sex, but I absolutely believe that (coupled with some other minority identifiers I have) has something to do with it. You can just feel it.
What do you all do in these situations? I have learned my lesson from not doing anything in the past, and this time I am documenting everything. I can't stand spending time keeping a journal of this stuff, but I don't know what else I could do to stop the behavior. Unfortunately, using immediacy (self-disclosure) does not work when your boss lacks empathy.
I'm all about working hard and experiencing the growing pains that come with development within the field, but I do not believe that hazing should be permitted under any circumstances. It's discouraging to see in this field, let alone experience.
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