For my situation:
HSA ($6,500 individual and $13,000 family deductible then insurance pays 100%, family of 3) $825 per month
Dental (me and my wife) $71.14 per month
Disability ($7,200 per month benefit) $204 per month
Life Insurance ($3 million ten year and $2 million twenty year) $112 per month
401k me (employee and employer) $57,000
401k wife (she works for me, employee and employer) $25,500
IRAs $12,000
HSA plan savings benefit (stealth IRA) $7,100
Total per year: $116,145.68
Hours worked per year: 1,728
Cost per hour:
Total- $67.22
Minus Wife- $52.46
Minus Wife, Employee portion 401k/IRAs (what company pays your IRA and employee portion?)- $34.23
Minus Wife/Employee portion 401k/IRA/HSA stealth IRA- $30.12 or 12.55% of hourly rate